One of the things I’m learning as I work through the Soul Detox Bible study #shereadstruth is just how much toxic words can affect your life without you even knowing it. For me, sometimes it’s words that pop in my head that cause me to feel less than.
Maybe less than isn’t the right word…. or phrase.
I think sometimes it’s easy for me to forget all the things I am and not get caught up in the things I’m not.
{Wore: Dress & Belt – Anthropologie // Sweater – Nordstrom // Necklace – Three Sisters Jewelry // Bangles – Target // Watch – Michele}
I’m not a good house cleaner.
I don’t like to fold laundry.
I’m not good at decorating our home because I am still learning what my style is.
I’m not always good at calling my friends back.
I struggle with getting distracted.
But see the thing about these words are that, that’s exactly what they are… words
Toxic thoughts that the enemy uses to keep me from focusing on what He wants for my life.
And that’s not what God wants me to fill my heart and mind with.
He wants me to remember that:
I am His child born to worship and serve him.
I am a wife who loves spending time with my husband encouraging him to peruse all his passions. A wife who has stood by his side since the day he began his own business 7 1/2 years ago and continues to love his enthusiasm for life.
I’m a mom who loves to snuggle with my children.
Who freely gives out hugs and kisses.
Puts bandaids on boo boo’s.
Prays with my children before bed.
Sings songs and dances around like a crazy person just to make them laugh.
I’m also a woman who longs to have a heart after Gods.
Who longs for time with him daily.
And knows that despite my struggles that make me somedays feel less than, that I’m doing the best that I can.
This week I’m working on telling those toxic thoughts to take a hike. You can no longer make me feel like I can’t reach for my goals, that I’m not making the cut today as a mom, that I’m missing the mark. Isn’t it funny how those toxic thoughts work?! They dig up insecurities you didn’t even realize you had.
But I’m determined to let God’s blessings outweigh those thoughts. How about you? Will you take a stand with me agains those toxic thoughts?
Today is the hubby’s birthday and so I’m going to be spending the day hopefully making him feel special and spoiled and most of all loved!
Babe, I love you and I can’t wait to spend this week… and weekend, celebrating YOU!
Thank you for everything you’ve been to me, without you I’m incomplete.
You have been my biggest encourager, and I’m forever grateful that God gave you to me.
Love you so much!
I’m linking up with my lovely friend Lindsey this week.
aimee steckowski says
beautiful dress – i want one!! are they still available??!!
second, love this post. i have see the soul detox and interested in learning how to connect on this. you have inspired me.
have a wonderful time celebrating the hubs bday!! he’s one lucky guy! 🙂
JessicaLynn says
I love that dress on you. I want one now.
It’s crazy how toxic thoughts can take over our whole being isn’t it? It seems like the soul detox has been amazing for you. I have been trying to find ways to bring god into my life more, maybe I’ll do the detox too!!
Kristen says
What a sweet post! And your adorable children!!!! Hope y’all have a great family day together!
The Mrs. and The Momma
tricia says
You are beautiful, mama, and so is this post. It’s SO EASY for us to dwell on the toxic thoughts that plague us, especially with blogs and Pinterest to compare ourselves to. YES, I’ll take a stand with you against the negativity! 🙂
Jacky {The Sweetest Petunia} says
I agree! It is SO easy for me to compare myself to the amazing people I know, and forget all the talents that God has blessed me with…toxic thoughts are just so damaging.
Love your outfit, too!
Kate says
That dress is awesome and you look lovely. Happy birthday to your hubby.
And thank you for sharing your thoughts on toxic words. We aren’t perfect, but we are perfectly made.
XOXO
Andrea Howe says
Amen! And you look lovely 🙂
brittany@lovestitched says
You are so beautiful – inside and out! and what a darling fam you have! love ya
Amanda {at} Royal Daughter Designs says
Thank you for sharing! I think it is SO valuable to focus on the positive – as long as we keep in mind that the only good in us is JESUS! 🙂
Also – you’re gorgeous, have I told you that lately? I love, love, love the outfit!
Laura @ Bits of Splendor says
You look amazing. Such beautiful hair. And the dress is so so cute.
I loved this post because of your honesty and transparency. I think many women can relate. Thanks for being so brave to share it and allow other women to be ministered to. I’m sure there are many!
Meagan says
I still love that dress! I totally should have stolen it from your closet. 🙂 You are SO more than- and you know it, girl. You have mastered the sultry, instagram self portrait, your hair is always amazing, your blog is growing leaps and bounds because you share yourself-how could you possibly be less than? No. enough of this talk.
Aggie says
Saw one of your tweets from #shereadstruth and stumbled here…thoughts can be so defining and I’ve been woken up to realize mine haven’t been so great. Changing that. It’s refreshing to see your smile, your cuteness & your positive energy!!
Toxic thoughts be gone!
🙂
Stacey says
Love the dress.
Love your sweet words even more!
I’ve been singing a song all week with the chorus, “My heart will sing, no other name…Jesus.”
Rawkul @StyleMentor.US says
Hi, I just found you on Pleated Poppy. Your words are so true. Thoughts and words create. The world was created with utterances from the Almighty, and as we are in God’s image, we do the same every day with our minds and mouths. Toxic thoughts can begin as soon as we awaken and either be fed or starved. It is a daily exercise to shut them down and focus on the mission. Love your outfit and nice to meet you! 🙂
Christine says
I just found your blog through the pleated poppy. I love this dress with the sweater. Thanks for sharing these thoughts today. God knew that I needed to have my heart touched and remember to keep all the good of his glory close and get rid of the rest. Amen.
Jodi says
Adorable outfit and lovely words! Very timely for today, thank you.
Faith R {Photog} says
I just ADORE first outfit – that mustard yellow color is so “in” this year and the belt really shows off your figure. Your hair looks so pretty in these photos too! I love those loose curls.
I totally agree with what you’ve written here too – I am not great at staying motivated with the housework and forget to write that email/make that phone call and end up feeling so isolated. So good luck with moving forward! It’s SO worth it 🙂
Jessie @ Dream and Differ says
You look amazing in that outfit! I love the belt, the cardi, everything actually 😉
It can be so hard to stay focused on the positive, but your post today is really inspirational. Well said!
Elisabeth says
This outfit is simply darling! 🙂 I am always looking for new fashion ideas, and this gave me a great one!
Ania says
Your outfit is so cute, love the navy/mustard yellow colour scheme. And the high waist belt. May be copying this still in the near future. And your children are adorable. Your daughter is a little mini me. Happy birthday to your hubby. Right now I am struggling with the negative voice in my head. I am trying to not get caught up with them but it’s hard because they have been there so long. I really want to start selling my creation but I keep hearing “who do you think you are, you’re not good enough to do this” I am working at silencing them but it’s a battle.
Mallorie Owens says
I’ve been noticing the same thing lately- how much our words affect how we view ourselves. It’s sad how much we can put ourselves down throughout the day. We don’t even realize how terrible this is making us feel! I’m trying to rid myself of these toxic thoughts as well. Good luck!
Celeste @ Our Fabulous Life in the Suburbs says
LOVE your outfit, and your little ones are so precious! I’m definitely one to struggle with insecurities and toxic thoughts, and it’s something I’ve been working to overcome for years. I love that you are telling them to take a hike 🙂 I’m going to try my very best to join you in that!
Robin says
I LOVE everything about the outfit! And you have the cutest kids! I am visiting from the Pleated Poppy Link up and I am a new follower! Hope you will stop by http://www.garagesalesrus.blogspot.com/ and do the same.
Robin
Franziska says
your hair looks so cute! I was eyeing up that dress and now I’m upset I didn’t pull the trigger – it looks great on you!
Marilyn says
LOVE your post.. This is FAB.. I adore your little ones, so darling and cute.. GREAT outfit. That belt is super cute.. I love the color co-ordinations happening.. . I would LOVE LOVE if you could link this post to my Mannequin Monday’s happening today. Great style, lovely blog you have here and I’m officially a follower.. I look forward to stopping in more and indulging… Thanks SO much in advance.. Wishing you an amazing week ahead.. xo~ Marilyn http://www.theartsygirlconnection.com/2012/06/mannequin-mondays-you-wear-it-best-diy.html#comments
Joye says
I just landed here when I looked up the soul detox plan online and what a sweet post!! Love your words and your heart after God’s and love your style too, girl! 🙂 I’m followin’!
Miss Rockwel says
This is absolutely beautiful. These words are full of inspiration. I have to remember on a consistent basis to think positive thoughts and surround myself with positive people whose goals are closely related-otherwise it’s easy to allow the enemy to win!
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