I wish I knew how to begin writing this.
I’ve actually stopped and started over and over again.
How do you find the right words?
The hard truth is that there will never be the right words,
this is not something that can be packaged up into a bow.
There’s nothing beautiful, nothing serene.
Yet ever bit of it is screaming of a need to find hope.
A need to find peace.
A cry out to know that God will write more of this story.
That this will not define their story, but will define how they stand together united.
A need to find God in the midst of tragedy.
To know that His plan doesn’t always make sense to us.
Many of you know my best friend Jacqui, who blogs at Baby Boy Bakery.
We met almost 3 years ago and an instant friendship was born.
She is one of the strongest, loving, most incredible people I know.
And last year I was honored to stand next to her when she married her husband, Dan.
Last Friday night, while playing out front of a family members home,
Ryan was hit by a truck and went home to be with Jesus.
It all happened so fast and he was simply in the wrong place at the wrong time.
A simple excitement to grab the frisbee that had escaped into the road
was met with a tragic loss.
As I sit here writing this, I’m shaking and I haven’t stopped crying for the last 24 hours. I’m not even going to begin to share how unfair this all is or how much I hate watching my best friend go through this. No parent should ever have to bear the weight of loosing their child, especially not one that is 3 1/2. Even now, I sit here wanting to scream. I’ve begged God countless times to bring him back, to give him back to Jacqui and Dan.
Today as I sat with Jacqui she gave me the honor of sharing her story.
Not the whole story, but just a slice.
A cracked window into a story that she needed to be told because she needs, they need, our support.
They need us to rally
They needs us to pray
to share
to love
to remember…
….. Ryan.
Let his loss not be in vain.
I need your help friends.
I know you may not know Jacqui, but she needs us now more than ever.
Will you unite with me?
Will you share her story?
Will you offer her comfort?
If you could take a moment, if you could take many moments…
and not just pray for them,
but join me in posting pictures of Ryan on your Facebook, your twitter, your Instagram feeds.
Post them that the memory of him can live on.
Post them to share in the love they had for their little boy.
I know we can do this.
I know we can pull together.
Will you grab a picture from Jacqui’s Instagram feed, and post it to yours?
Will you share words of encouragement and tag #RedBalloonsforRyan?
Also be sure to tag Jacqui, @babyboybakery and Dan, @danno12
I promised her that Ryan would not be forgotten,
we can make sure that doesn’t happen.
We can use our voices for good.
To tell a story,
of a little boy who loved life and his family,
who laughed often,
who loved to snuggle his mommy and daddy.
And to tell the story of two parents who are loving each other
strongly and beautifully through this tragedy, through this unexplainable loss.
With all that’s within me, and I know I’m probably not making sense anymore,
please share.
And please excuse me this week as I mourn the loss of a little boy who meant so much to me and my family. No mother should endure the loss of her child and no mother should have to share with her children that they’ve lost a best friend. While my kids have already shared that they know Ryan is dancing with Jesus in Heaven, they are deeply saddened and marked forever by this loss. I will do my best to come back to this space soon, but for now I just need some time, some moments of rest to gather my thoughts and my emotions. Posting here makes me feel as though life is moving forward and I’m not ready. I want it to stand still, I want it to rewind. I wish I could bring him back. I wish I could understand.
Jacqui and Dan, I love you with all my heart and my soul! I’m so sorry that you’ve had to endure this and I promise you that Ryan will not be forgotten. He will NOT! We will remember him, we will tell his stories and we will love you both through all of this! Lord God, be with them….
Rest in Peace, Ryan Cruz Saldana 5.2.2014
Natalia says
Oh Alissa, I am so sorry. So very very sorry to hear this. My heart is so heavy today. And it could be anyone’s kid, Eli has ran into the street before without paying attention. Even though it’s nearly impossible to see, God is in control. I will be praying, as you said, it’s something no parent should have to go through. Oh Lord, why. I will be praying my heart goes out to the family. I’m so sorry.
Wendy says
Deeply saddened to hear this news….how heartbreaking for everyone that was loved and touched so deeply by this little boy. His smile lights up every picture…you can tell how precious he was and how much he was loved and cared for. My deepest condolences are with you all and he will not be forgotten!
tammyjj1972 says
I feel so sad about their little boy. Such a tragic death for an innocent little one. He is so very cute. All I can say is God be with them in their time of need because other then that I am at a loss for words.
I wanted to post a pic/poem here but there isn’t a camera icon. My prayers are with you all.
theMommaBird says
I never knew her personally but read her blog and i can not even imagine. I will be praying for them, praying for comfort and healing. I dont even know what else to say….
Erin Bassett says
How heartbreaking. Praying & remembering.
JessicaLynn says
This is terrible. I could not imagine. It’s one of my biggest fears and I’m seeing it play out to someone I’ve always admired. God bless them. May he lift them up in their time of need and watch over them as they grieve
Bekah says
Oh how my heart breaks for their loss.
natasha says
As my eyes are filled with tears my heart and soul hurts for this sweet family
Nancy says
Losing a loved one at any age is very heartbreaking. My son is 4, and this just breaks my heart. If there is any comfort, please know that families can be together forever. Through sealing powers of the priesthood that have been restored through Jesus Christ’s church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, it is possible to be a family once again. Whether in this life or the next, there is hope. She will get to raise her son again and be with him through all the eternities. I’m not trying to preach during a difficult time, but I understand it can be hard to see past a tragedy. My prayers go out to this family, and I pray their hearts will heal with time. Seek out Christ. He does love you and is aware of your feelings.
Micki says
Nancy if u see this please e mail me at shaymick@cox.net
Vicki Richardson says
I am so glad that I have this knowledge you speak of, and I have felt His love in moments I didn’t think I could breath ever again. My prayers and that of my family will include this family and hopefully they will feel the love of strangers whispering their names directly to our Heavenly Father.
sarah says
My mother heart goes out for them. Thanks for writing this for them.
T.E.A.R.S.
sarah says
* You may find comfort from another blogging mom, whom has also lost a son. http://flowersinhisgarden.blogspot.ca/
Wendy Cray Kaufman says
I believe this blogger might provide a bit of comfort, as well. Many, many wishes for peace for this beautiful family.
http://roscommonacres.com/
Rebecca says
And the Spohrs, who lost their daughter Madeline at 15 months: http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/about/maddie/#axzz313DrjCsu
My heart goes out to all touched by this kind of tragedy.
patty says
my deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of that beautiful little boy ryan…
may peace find it’s way to you all someday…
xoxo…
Nicole says
I am so sorry to hear this. As a mother who has also lost a child, my heart breaks for them. I will be praying for them, lifting them up, asking that God give them peace, comfort, and strength. You can find Him in the chaos, just don’t stop searching for Him.
Carmella says
Praying for peace for you all…. I will be honoring the memory of this beautiful boy by not taking a single second granted of my own children’s lives…. I sometimes forget how precious my time with them is. Praying, praying for you all, I pray that God will wrap His arms around you and that you may find some peace soon
marissa | rae gun ramblings says
Sending ao many hugs and prayers this is so so sad
jeannett says
Oh Alissa. And dear, sweet Jacqui. Unending waves of love your way. I’m sorry. Forever, sorry. Simply and humbly sorry. Love you both.
Haley says
I am so sorry. I have never read Jacqui’s blog, but I did click over to her instagram to look at pictures. Ryan looks like he was such a loving happy child with his handsome smile and mane full of curly red hair. I will be praying for Jacqui and everyone close to Ryan.
mercedes says
This story truly touch me and I’m sitting here crying and praying for this family, as I to know exactly what they feel, on a Friday my 5 yr old baby boy was to hit by a car and went to be with our father in his kingdom, in the bible it saids that there’s a time to be born and a time to go home with the lord, although we may not like or understand gods plan for us we must trust him in the mist of all this pain. God bless her family and she will be in my prayers
Contact info: Mercedes 6262527006 or email loveme0709@gmail.com I would love to help in any way
Laura Shelton says
Praying for you too, Mercedes. God bless you and your family.
Mercedes says
People will tell you to get over it. People will tell you to move on “it’s been long enough” ignore! Grieve deeply & completely. Don’t hurry. You’ll never get over the death of your son. But that’s ok- someday your heart will heal. Thank him everyday for leaving a mark on your life & your heart. You’ll be ok. It just takes time. I’m so sorry for you loss.
-Mercedes S
Alissa Circle says
I’m weeping and praying over you and this friend.
Ashley says
Sending thoughts and prayers to this sweet family and yours. I can’t even imagine. May God bring them peace through this tragedy.
Jana says
I found out through a friend’s Instagram post about this and my heart breaks for this family. I didn’t know of them before these posts, but he was beautiful and his parents obviously doted on him. I am praying.
Kimberlee says
My heart breaks for them. And Jacqui is going to have the hardest weekend of her life with Mother’s Day. Please let them know about GriefShare that lots of churches host, it is amazing. And Nancy & Dave Guthrie host a few respite retreats near Nashville every year, it is an amazing weekend. I pray they can get to one.
Because of the Lord ’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. (Lamentations 3:22, 23 NIV)
Mindy says
What a beautiful child, a beautiful family! I love the pictures, they really show the love and bond of family, how important it is to make the most of all the little moments together. We do not know Gods plan, we never know what each new day will bring us, all we can do is love as much as we can, spend time with those we love, and share beautiful memories of those we were honored to to have the moments with, and we have to try and take comfort knowing that we will see them again! Thank you God that little boys spirit is very much alive!! Thank you for giving these two loving, wonderful parents the gift of knowing that deep of love for that little boy, thank you for their love for each other, and for giving them the comfort and the strength for one another that they will need to get through this together! I’m praying for the both of you, your family and loved ones, and I hope you can find comfort in one another, stay strong. My prayers are with you, and your beautiful child!
Jelli says
This story breaks my heart. As a mama, I can’t help but to cry out to God for this family. Thank you for letting us share with you and this beautiful family in their time of need.
Debi says
I thank you and my daughter Erica for honoring Jacqui and Dan’s request that we don’t forget Ryan. Many of us feel and can’t express our sorrow. You have spoken for some many of us. I will be praying constantly for God to give them strength.
LeeAnn Cole says
I am praying for this family. I do not know them but my heart is breaking.
Melissa says
I know that words from a stranger can’t ever take away the pain that she is going through right now, but this story breaks my heart. As a mother to a 3 1/2 year old myself, I ache. This little boy is loved, and he will continue to be loved. I will be posting my post for him on instagram shortly. I’ll be praying for his family.
Jess says
So much love to them and to you.
Brandi says
Wow… I don’t have children but came across one of Ryans photos on instagram. I do have nieces and nephews though and I can’t imagine losing one of them. (same ages as Ryan) It’s so easy to wonder “why” why now why him… But saying that he is with his Father in Heaven and the Savior Jesus Christ is very accurate. He must have been a special little boy to be able to fulfull is earthly mission in such a short time. My heart goes out to you and your friends family. Give her our love and hugs and support.
erika @ rouge + whimsy says
alissa, let me know if there is anything more i can do to help — praying and mourning with you and jacqui and dan.
Nikol says
Shared – http://celebratewewill.weebly.com/1/post/2014/05/red-balloons-for-ryan.html
So heartbreaking, they are in my prayers
Aurora Morales says
My heart goes out to them! I cannot even fathom what it must feel like for them at this very moment. May God give them the strength to pass this and continue going on knowing their little angel is with him. He was and will always be a beautiful soul that was taken away too soon. God bless always!
Alane Schroeder says
My heart goes out to Ryan’s parents and family. I don’t even want to imagine their heartache. I pray for Ryan’s family to find peace in God. We can’t explain things sometimes, but God has the reason. Ryan must have been so special!
Kelly Lynam says
As a mom that does know this pain, I will pray. Nothing is going to make it better. But prayer. And support. Every hour of every day. My prayers will be with them as they walk this journey that just isn’t fair. But as I come up on two years of my son’s death, I am grateful for a God that was by my side every second of every day and helped hold me up when I was weak. Prayer and support. Every day. For a long time. That is your job as their friend. Even when it is hard. Praying.
Sarah says
This has touched me so deeply. I posted on my Instagram feed and then I just had to leave my house. I squeezed my babies and just left. I went to a cafe and ordered some sort of green algae juice and sat in the sun. I reflected on the pure tragedy of this world losing a beautiful boy like Ryan. I reflected on the ultimate, all-consuming, abyss that is losing a child and prayed for Jacqui and Dan. May God grant them peace as they now must navigate through life without their precious Ryan. One day they will all be reunited and I hope some day soon that knowledge is enough and they can still find happiness here on Earth. Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts Alissa — very beautifully written. My heart breaks for all involved.
ashley gillespie says
I saw the hashtag on my IG feed this afternoon, and I’ve had this family in my thoughts and prayers since. I just had a little baby boy of my own in September, and the idea of him not being here is gut wrenching. My stomach is in knots, and all I can do is continue to pray for peace for Jacqui and Dan and all their family and friends affected by this horrible tragedy.
Kristi Bulnes says
Thank you for sharing this today. I saw this as soon as I awoke as I was laying next to my own sweet boy with long, curly hair. It has broken my heart. I’ve been at work all day on the verge of tears. I don’t know any of you and I didn’t know Ryan but I know as a mom, that I’d be thankful for this support if god forbid this happened to me. You are an amazing friend. The outpouring of love has overwhelmed me as I have watched this unfold all day. I am literally counting down the minutes until I can get home to hug my baby tonight. We will pray together for Ryan and his family.
Shannon Blount says
My kids have attended SCPENS with the wonderful Curley family up until last year. I am in so much pain knowing that Caitlin, Conner, Julie and Clyde are mourning such a tragic loss! So much changes in the blink of an eye. The other day my Husband and I were out on a family walk exploring our new neighborhood. Our almost five yr old son was riding his bike as well pulled our daughter behind us in a wagon. We watched joyfully as our son glided down a hill and within minutes it turned to one of the most TERRIFYING moments of our lives! He took his feet off the pedals and was headed down the street out of control and helpless….headed directly for a busy four way stop. My husband and I just ran terrified yelling “BRAKE BRAKE! HEAD FOR THE BUSHES!!!” We felt powerless. By the grace of god he stopped just before the four way stop. We could have lost him just as easily. So with that we mourn our extended preschool family. I often enjoyed pictures on Julie’s FB of the THREE REDS playing together. My heart is simply broken!
Anna T says
My instagram blew up today with pictures of him. It was first a couple bigger instagrammers.. then more and more. What a crazy world.
I am going to get offline now, and hug my 3 year old. And my 4 month old. And wipe the tears off my face. My heart hurts. I don’t even know them and my heart hurts. That boy is so so so beautiful. We won’t forget him. We’ll send hugs his families way.
Brooklyn says
You wrote this beautifully Alissa! My heart aches for them. I’ve shared his pictures showed my kids his precious little self. God bless you all! I’m not stopping praying for them.
Big hugs!
Gracie says
This is just heart breaking… I feel their pain as I have kids of my own and I can’t even imagine! He is so beautiful and is not eternally with god! He is well taken care of.. One of his angels. Although there are no words for comfort.. Prayers are with baby boy Ryan and his parents! Truelly very sorry for your loss :(—
Jessica N says
Alissa, I’d like to help, please… please let me help.
This story has hit too close to home… too close. I have a son Ryan’s age. I couldn’t even begin to imagine what his Mother and Father are going through. We also do not live too far from his family.
When I found out about what happened, I thought… “what can I do?” there must be something… anything… that I could do to help this family. And I realized, I have a second instagram aside from my main account, that I use as a recipes page, it has almost 173k followers. I realized, why not use the amount of followers and traffic I have on my second instagram to start a donation and ask for help. Absolutely any and all money raised could help a little with funeral costs, etc… I will go ahead and start looking into starting a donation. Any and ALL proceeds will be given directly to the family. Please feel free to email me, and I would be more than willing to give you more contact information. I am not asking to directly talk with the family, as I understand deeply what a sensitive time this is for them. Eventually I would need to figure out a way to get them the money, but obviously at this moment and time none of that is important so I will try and contact you all at a later time.
My deepest condolences to Ryan’s family, and friends who got to know and love this beautiful beautiful little boy.
Jessica
Jessica.ehrreich@gmail.com
Diana says
@jessica N – I found this post http://thrivemoms.com/blog/2014/5/6/redballoonsforryan
The bloggers at Thrivemoms are collecting donations. You could direct any publicity/donations to this. Diana
Jessica N says
Also, another thing…
I will not start a donation without permission. I do not want to overstep any boundaries, I really do think I could help though, any feedback would be so greatly appreciated. Thinking of you all.
Jill says
My heart breaks for this beautiful family. I too lost my beautiful son to a horrible accident 3 years ago and my beautiful grandson less than a year ago…. my prayers will be with you in the days, months, and years ahead….
Helen says
Such a tragedy. So sorry for their loss. Picture grabbed and shared. #redballoonsforryan
Sanjana says
I am a complete stranger. To you, Jacqui and Dan. The way this has gone viral on Instagram is amazing. I learned of this tragedy this morning and haven’t been able to stop seeing pictures of little Ryan nor have I been able to stop thinking about it. It’s heart-wrenching…tragic. Am lost for words. My aunt and uncle lost their 11 year old son almost 5 years ago. This is a kind of wound that never heals, but time makes it more bearable. They will find their peace even though I know it seems like the toughest thing right now. And we’ll all be by their side. They are a wonderful family and Ryan will always be with them.
Fierce love, many hugs and a million prayers for Jacqui, Dan and the most beautiful, Ryan Cruz Saldana.
Gift Muhande says
Ryan has changed my life, from the USA to SOUTH AFRICA.
@alissamcircle I don’t know if this counts for anything but Ryan has been an angel to me this morning. My aunt has been in ICU for a month and a few days now, she had an Aneurysm. When I heard about this lost. I was so heart broken, I prayed for all of you that were close to him! Then I just felt overwhelmed with hope that my aunt will be okay, even though she can only open her eyes and it’s difficult to see her this way. I just heard something in my spirit say it was going to be fine. I believe that this message was for you as much as it was for me. I know it’s difficult now, I lost my brother when I was younger. But I promise you, keep faith, cling to God in this season and great things are coming ahead. Ryan is teaching many that life is too short, giving hope to many, changing the way parents treat their children, making families love more. His Legacy is LOUD and ALIVE. Death where is your sting? Because Ryan Cruz Saldana is still Jesus favorite instrument, changing lives…his soul is more alive than ever in Christ! I don’t know if I can even say this but this is exactly what I felt in my spirit and experienced after my prayer. He has inspired me to not give up, my aunt might be back to being a baby so the doctors say …right? But it doesn’t matter because she is still has breath in her lungs and all she needs me to do is pray and stay hopeful! God is full of miracles and in this time I just trust him because he showed up while I was praying and that encounter wouldn’t have happened if it wasn’t for Ryan. Jesus is LOVE. HOPE. FAITH and I pray that you feel him more than ever during this time. I am carrying you so close to my heart! Ryan will never be forgotten. @babyboybakery and @danno12 I love you and thank you for sharing a part of his life with us all. Xo Love from Gift.M
Caroline says
good word!!!
Alissa Circle says
I cried over reading these incredible words! Prayers being sent your way friend!! xo
katerina says
…Goodbye little man…I wish courage to your mom and dad…what a small wonderful life you had!So much love…
Emilia says
I cannot even begin to imagine what the whole family must be going through.
Nothing can ease the pain of loosing a child in such a tragic way. My deepest
condolences. My heart breaks for the parents.
I will keep the family in my prayers.
So extremely sorry for your loss!
Emilia says
I cannot even begin to imagine what the whole family must be going through.
Nothing can ease the pain of loosing a child in such a tragic way. My deepest
condolences. My heart breaks for the parents.
I will keep the family in my prayers.
So extremely sorry for your loss!
Diane Taylor says
My heart literally exploded into little tiny pieces when I heard about this senseless tragedy. You see, I know first hand what this kind of grief feels like. 2 years ago my son died in a fire – he was much older than Ryan but in an instant was taken from us. He was my only child. I am going to be brutally honest here – the pain you are feeling now is blinding and cuts so deep, yet it numbs you from the inside out – but as time goes on it the numbness wears off and it cuts even deeper. And every time I read one of these stories of another life cut short, the bandage I have on my own heart gets ripped off and bleeds. So much pain. And out of the tragic comes something beautiful. So I will do the only thing I know how – the only thing I asked people to do for me – pray and love on your family. You just never know when the unthinkable will happen. Ryan’s story will NOT end! It is JUST BEGINNING! My son Jonathan’s story continues to live on thru those of us who love him and miss him.
Jesus, please gather your arms around this family, this community, and help them like you helped us. Lift them, cradle them, carry them, and never leave their side.
To God be the glory,
Diane Taylor
mother of Jonathan Paul Daily, 4/25/87 – 3/1/12
Donna Ptak says
I can relate to you Diane. I lost my 4 year son when he ran in front of my husbands truck and died instantly Stories like this hit close to home and Ryan, his parents, and the forever impacted truck driver is on my mind. Everybody handles their grief differently but I experienced as you did. It was all numb at first. Then reality hit. How do you pick the final words for your son’s eulogy and grave? How do you shop in a grocery store without looking at his favorite foods and breaking down in a sobbing fit in the middle of an aisle? How can one woman cry so many tears? What a void for any family… looking at his empty spot at the table, looking at the pictures on the walls that will never change, the happy dances, antics and funny gestures that were just “them”, And do we keep the bedroom door open or closed? I sit here sobbing for you, for the family, and for my Michael. It’s truly a devastating loss. I wish none of us had to lose our children and the futures that are gone with them.
Amanda Rose says
I’ve shared Jacqui’s story on my blog this morning: http://amandaroseblog.typepad.com/my_blog/2014/05/red-balloons-for-ryan.html
…and continue to grieve for this beautiful family I’ve never met.
Barbara Italy says
Ciao, tramite Instagram ho saputo della scomparsa del piccolo Ryan, non conoscevo la sua storia così ho fatto una ricerca e ho trovato questo Blog. Scrivo dall’Italia esattamente da Milano, quindi il piccolo Ryan sta facendo il giro del mondo… anche io mi pubblicherò su Insta una sua foto (mio nick realbar5bara) così tutti potranno sapere quando era spettacolare… RIP piccolo grande uomo..
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Hello, via Instagram I heard about the death of the little Ryan, did not know his story so I did a search and found this blog. I write from Italy just to Milan, and then the little Ryan is doing around the world … I also publish on its Insta photos (my nick realbar5bara) so everyone will know when it was spectacular … RIP little big man. .
Claire says
So saddened by this story from thousands of miles away. I just cannot imagine the pain. What a beautiful, beautiful boy.
Jenna says
Praying, also have you heard of the book One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp? Here sister was killed by a truck and it’s an amazing story of her growth through the tragic event. So sorry for your loss and theirs.
Melissa Tornabene says
My deepest prayers for beautiful Ryan he IS not was a beautiful baby. I say IS because he will live on forever in so many of us. I will dedicate the twins 4 month mildstone picture to him today. And what an out of this world amazing MOMMA ur BFF is I will make all my baby food from the passion I have learned from her IG account. May God be will you all. I have never once questioned God but as I sit here sobbing I find myself bewildered with his choice to take beautiful Ryan and am truly so sorry and heartbroken for this precious family.
Melissa BK NY
Astami says
My heart is in a million pieces. No parent should have to go through such tragedy. Will be praying and wishing you all find peace and serenity. May the good memories of Ryan live on.
Emma TheMiniMesAndMe says
Such sad news, what a tragic loss of a beautiful boy.
My heart goes out to you all.
May he rest peacefully.
#RedBalloonsForRyan
Freda Logan says
I am praying for Ryan’s family. Such a heart breaking loss. God Bless and keep you all in his loving arms. I ask God “WHY” and I hear, Ryan is in heaven with me.
Rachel says
Ryan was clearly loved and cherished every day of his life. I will keep you and everyone who knew and loved him in my prayers. To his parents I would say how deeply sorry I am that they lost their precious son. He is a beautiful boy. And he knew how much you both love him. God bless and be with you.
Laura summers says
My heart Reilly goes out to u along with prayers. I would like to tell u about my niece she was 16 yrs old
We were sitting in my sisters living room when they were talking about n how he gave his only son who died for for our sins. Well Michelle was saved that morning. She left a while later a friend came on his motorcycle. With on the hour we got a phone call that she was in an accident by the time we got to the hosp she was on life support she had passed. God gives us our children on loan we never know for how long:
I do know one thing Ryan was here for a short while n has blessed n such h n inspiration to all that knew him. I’m hoping in some way it will help some how. Me heels parents to let her be a donner n was able to save 3 children’s life. Praying for u n ur family. Ryan thank u for the hearts n u have touched during ur shot time on this earth. U are so loved n have blessed all that know u.
Ariel says
Your such an awesome friend for these encouraging words. When I first seen your post I could do nothing but cry my heart aches so bad for this family being a patent of an 18 month old and 8 year old I couldn’t begin to imagine their pain As tears to flow I again went into prayer asking God to wrap his loving arms around you guys esp his parents As we all know our ways are not his ways but as a parent you could not help to ask Why…I just want this family to know my family is sending lots of hugs and prayers from Baltimore MD. May God Bless this family RIP Ryan such an adorable kid
Katie says
This breaks my heart to read. I don’t know them, and sadly only just yesterday came across her Instagram through this tragedy. Being a mama of a vibrant little 2 year old red haired boy myself, this family reminds and resembles my own quite a bit. It really got me in the heart reading this. I cried my eyes out reading this post, and my heart is aching for you all. I am so deeply sorry for what you are going through. I will post about Ryan, that beautiful little soul. And I promise he will always be remembered. He was clearly so loved, and you could see in his beautiful smile that he felt the love. I hope you can all find strength in knowing that he was a happy boy who knew he was loved so much.
Mechelle says
My heart aches for you. I just became a mother 1 month ago and I cannot even begin to imagine what you’re going thru. prayers and guidance goes to your family. sorry for your loss. Heaven gained a BEAUTIFUL little angel
Natasha D'Anna says
Hi Alissa! I am so sorry for the loss of baby Ryan. We are located in NY and when I saw the first message about Ryan I immediately fell into tears and could not get him off of my mind. As a mom who share images of her girls and their spunky personalities, businesses started because of them; the connection is automatically there. I feel that Ryan is every mom’s little boy and he should be remembered forever. I have seen many popular IG shops donate and generate finding to help the family. I know that you are a close friend and figured writing to you with the idea of creating red balloons to be shipped to anyone who purchases/donates $1 (for a balloon) and $1 for shipping will join in releasing Ryan’s red ballon on Mother’s Day or the day if received on time. This can be an ongoing remembrance and a community moment; when all IG, FB communities share the release of Ryan’s red balloons.
Andrea Figlewicz says
There are no words for this loss, we lost our baby girl and I know the pain she is in. Please tell her she is not alone and if she needs someone to talk to I am here any hour.
Caroline says
I’m so sorry for this families loss. Grieving with them as we are grieving the loss of another little boy, Kai. He was 2.5 and recently passed and we are clinging to Jesus and the hope that someday soon we will get to see him again. Believing that Kai and Ryan are playing together in heaven. xoxo
Vanessa Arauz says
I’m so sorry for tbe loss of Kai here on earth bit rest assured that Kai and Ryan for sure have met in heaven, and it was God’s purpose to have them both give their loved one from above…my prayers are with the families of Kai and Ryan. ..
Vanessa Arauz says
I cried after reading this and seeing the pictures of this lovely family. I PRAY that God gives them tje STRENGTH TO ENDURE THE PAIN OF THE LOSS OF THEIR CHILD HERE IN EARTH, BUT I TOO HAVE GONE THROUGH 2LOSSES ALREADY AND UNDERSTAND THEIR PAIN, IT IS JUST UNBEARABLE!!…..but they like me jave someone watching over them, Ryan is feeling their pain as well, Ryan can hear them, and see them from heaven!, he is also looking out for them….My prayers ate with tje Cruz, Saldaña’s family….
CCsMom says
I am so sorry for your loss. I know all too well the pain of losing a child. It is something that never leaves you, but time does soften the pain in your heart.
There are no words to express how sorry I am for this family.
Emily Cornett says
My heart is completely broken for such a sweet & beautiful family. What a handsome little guy Ryan is… I’m on my knees praying for strength & peace, that God would be with them now & in the long road ahead. Sending so much love your way! ❤️
Diana says
Thank you for bringing this back up on your blog today after it crashed from all the amazing sharing from the blog world. I didn’t get a chance to read it yesterday but i did see everyone sharing on Instagram. I have shared a little bit on my blog because it honestly stopped me in my tracks yesterday and broke me heart. All my love to you, your children, his parents, family and friends.
DB says
May the Lord of comfort give her peace and heal her supernaturally!
Rosalina Diaz Rio Grande , Puerto Rico says
So sorry for the lost of your little boy , may God give the family strenth and comfort to pull thru
this unbearable pain and sorrow .
Sue Murray says
To Ryan’s family. As a parent who lost her only child, my heart breaks for you to start this horrific journey. I am 7 years into this journey and it hasn’t been easy. You take one minute, one hour and you do what works for you.
My girl is not forgotten after 7 years, and I will hope Ryan will always be remembered. Life is not fair, and I don’t know why this tragedy had to come your way.
I found reading and writing out my feelings helped, I went through my grief with no partner, and I am glad you have your husband.
Please know I am thinking of you.
Caroline says
Sue, I’m so sorry to hear of your loss as well xoxo
Emily Baker says
This is horrible. absolutely horrible. Just posted and donated. I’m so sorry……..
Allison Maynard says
In seeing this beautiful family endure the loss of their little angel, it breaks my heart … I have no words.. I simply have prayer to you and yours along with healing energy.. Your hearts will forever be tattooed with his love, his beautiful red hair, his adventurous eyes, and the magnificent love he felt for both of you. Just know you had a part in creating an angel. He will forever be with you both and the love you two shared in creating him – Your angel.. Blessings to you both..
Sonya Nipper says
I lost my three-year-old daughter eleven years ago. It was the hardest thing my family has gone through but we do know our “Yanci” is with the Lord. So sorry for their loss as well. I will be praying for them to find comfort and peace.
Barbara says
What a tragedy… So sorry for the loss my prayers are with you all!!!
Queens,NYC
Irma says
I am so sorry for their loss,keeping them in my prayer’s
Wesley jay says
I’m so heart broken to hear this story. What can I do? I’m a worship artist in the Georgia area, a free benighted concert,CDs and bands, how can I help take this further?
Wesleyjay.webs.com
Angie H says
My heart goes out to this family during this time. I saw a post on IG with an adorable picture of Ryan. It breaks my heart that any parent should have to go through this terrible loss. I will continue to pray for everyone that was touched by Ryan. #redballoonsforryan I will grab a pic and share his story in NC. Lots of prayers and love to his family and friends.
Angie Lucas says
I do not know any of you, but my Instagram feed had sweet Ryan on it all day yesterday and for some reason I was consumed with it. I tried many times to read his story and am just getting to this morning. I am praying constantly for this family and for all those who know him. His life has already touched so many and his death is not in vain. God is already shining through Ryan. I type these words as a momma who has been where they are today. Not because of a tragic accident, but because my first son went to be with Jesus during a morning nap when he was 7 months old. My heart shatters anytime I hear of a parent starting this journey! It is hard and never ending, but our Heavenly Father slowly mends our heart to a point that we do not ache with every breath. Continued prayers for everyone. And as my sweet boy Ty would turn 5 this Sunday, we will send an extra balloon to Heaven, a red one, just for Ryan!
beck says
As long as you love, Ryan will live! I know this first hand, I too have suffered the loss of a child, my only son. I send you my deepest most heartfelt condolences and pray that peace finds its way into your life during this tragic journey.
Eunice Fox says
Hello Alissa,
I work for your mom.
I have been very unhappy ever since you mom told me this terrible story. I told my husband and ten year old son about it last nigth and they are also sad. My son, Derek said today when they did Rosary, he would say a prayer for Ryan.
andreaworley@live.com says
my thoughts and prayers go out to this family. bless you alissa for helping your friends. i’m so sorry for your loss. xo!
Holly says
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family, to Jacqui and her family. Thank you for sharing this story and helping to keep Ryan’s memory alive, and for allowing this incredible community to come together to support this beautiful family.
Sharon says
What a beautiful post to your friend and her adorable baby boy, that red hair! It is a tragic story and one that should never be experienced by a parent. It is at this point that it makes one wonder about God and why he would do such a thing to a child and beautiful family. I lost my son 8 years ago – he was 24. It is a loss no parent should endure and my heart goes out to her and her husband. It is a pain that they will never get over – he was given to them for such a short time, but what joy and love they experienced. They have to hang on to that. It will not be easy at all on your friends. It will take years before they can even get through a sentence about Ryan without crying. I wish they did not have to go through this horrendous pain and grief, it is almost an unbearable feeling. They have to stick together and draw strength from each other. Be there for them when they need – and let them talk about Ryan and what happened whenever they need to.
Lisa Hartwell says
Words cannot express how saddened I am whenever I hear of the loss of a child , may god be with all of you , and know that he is always with you . What a beautiful little angel he must be ! Rest assured you will be reunited one day and that he will be welcoming you with opens arms at the gates . Many prayers and positive thoughts for everyone affected by this tragedy .
Susan says
Heartbreaking. And a beautiful tribute to a beautiful boy. I could not imagine the pain. My thoughts are with all of you.
Diana says
My heart is so heavy with this tragic story. I hadn’t heard of Jacqui until the instagram #redballoonsforryan.
You are a good friend, and you will help Jacqui and Dan get through this I know.
Sarah says
Oh goodness this really saddens me. My heart is so heavy for you all and I’m so so very sorry, I mean words can not explain how sorry I am in this tragic unexpected loss. I have little ones myself and after this story – which has touched me tremendously, I have held them a little longer. I can not imagine what it’s like. I can only imagine how much it hurts and thinking about what Ryan’s parents and yourself and everyone else who personally knew this sweet boy, really makes me break into tears. I feel for you and I hope my healing energy is felt by you and that darling angels parents. He may not physically be here but his soul will surely live on and within you all. He was so little and I’m so heart broken at how bright and happy he looked in his photos. Everything was fine a week ago. I pray you to regain strength during this difficult time and I wish I could hold you all and reassure you that this isn’t the end. He is still going to forever be around you all. I’m blown away at the love and responses this community has poured into this loss and I’m so thankful to be apart of it. I have posted the photo to raise awareness of redballoonsforryan and to also get others in paying it forward in helping this family with and donations towards income loss during their time of grief. I will also post this on my fb page. I feel for you guys and anyone else that has to go through this. You will always feel his spirit and energy. Sending my love to you all.
Sarah Alchmist
http://www.1987blog.com
@sarahalchmist
Cynthia macaraig says
I’m so sorry for your lost he is in heaven smiling down at you both watching over you’ll R.I.P. Ryan you are not forgotten ###redballoonsforRyan
Teresa Brink says
I did not know the family. But I am so sorry that this tragedy had to happen to them. Especially to such a young child. I will praying. I am crying as I read this and as I write this. Sending prayers.
Connie says
I am so very sorry for your loss ! Praying for you all . I love his red
Hair 😉 ! Very precious little angel ! RIP
Marlene says
What a beautiful little boy, reminds me of my beautiful grandson who is the same age as Ryan… My heart is broken for this family, I will keep you in my prayers even though I don’t know any of you… God Bless…
Joy @ Caspara says
This is such a heartbreaking story. I keep seeing pictures of I’m on my Instagram feed, and he was so beautiful. Praying for you, praying for his family.
Crystal says
I think I speak on behalf of most mothers when I say that he will never be forgotten. Even though we have never met, your son and his story will forever be etched on my heart. His sweet little face and fire red hair will forever be preserved in a beautiful childhood. I will carry his balloon in my heart and pray for your family forever.
Erin says
So many prayers for this family! I wrote it up on my blog too, linking people to the thrive moms page. I don’t have a huge following but I felt compelled to share his story.
http://lovetimesfive.com/2014/05/06/red-balloons/
Carolina says
This story has completely broken my heart. My heart is definitely aching for Jacqui and the entire family. I personally do not know them but viewing the pictures was enough for me to shed tears for them. I can’t stop praying for you all to someday find comfort and heal. You have a beautiful angel playing in Heaven at peace. May God bless you all. My sincerest condolences.
Alex says
I saw the photos of this beautiful little boy on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook and had to find out what happened. I am so sorry, this is such an enormous unfairness, beyond comprehension. My thoughts are with Ryan’s family, friends, and those all around feeling the ripples of this loss.
Lauren Gold says
Alissa, I’m a reporter with the Pasadena Star-News. This story is touching and I think it needs to be reported. Can you give me a call 626-657-0990 or email lauren.gold@langnews.com?
Jade says
My family and many others would like to know if there is ANYTHING we can do or send to this family. I make custom coasters and I’d love to send some with pictures of Ryan and his family on them. Praying for these beautiful parents as their sweet baby boy watches over them.
Vivien Hibbert says
Praying with you all today – sending love and hugs even though we don’t know each other.
Katy Maki says
I saw a friend post on Instagram and had to find out the story. I will be lifting them up in prayer. I can’t even imagine the pain they are in. Love seeing this go viral!
Heather A.P. says
Ryan is such a beautiful boy. I will remember him with you. Thank you for sharing his and your story. Prayers ascending for all of you. Heather A.-P.
Cicily Marie says
I cried so hard yesterday I was physically exhausted. I couldn’t breathe. I don’t even know this little family. But what I do know is that I have a 5 year old son who was squeezed extra tight when I got home last night. And I told him I love you so many times I lost count. And if I had all the money in the world, I’d wish it away for these parents to get their baby back. I wish nothing but peace for Dan and Jacqui and their families. I wish all of you peace and brighter days.
Allissa Cargile says
To my knowledge I’ve been told that they live in Pasadena, I live not far in Echo Park. I would love to drop off pre-made meals if it would be something the family would be willing to accept? I have a 15 month old and I could not fathom losing him. I’ve put proceeds from my etsy shop up as 100% proceeds going to their family for the next 36 hours, but unfortunately my shop is very fresh and new. I would love to help. You can email me at allissacargile@gmail.com to chat more about possibly dropping off some pre-made goods in an effort to help, it would help raise up my sunken heart just a little bit more. Stay strong Dan and Jacqui.
Brittany says
This world/life was never promised to be perfect and times like this make me wish the world was (perfect)…so, that tragedies like this never happened. So sad. May God give you peace, hope, and comfort! My heart goes out to this sweet family. I have some red roses on my table right now and I am going to let those be a reminder that life is precious and to never take it for granted.
Jennifer says
This is such a sad story and I send my prayers up to God for the family. Jesus nor God took Ryan away; why would God cause pain and in such a tragic way to someone, let alone a child who hasn’t even lived life; just because he wants them to be with him. Its illogical… With that said Ryan is merely sleeping until the day God ressurects him and so he will be reunited with all his loved ones John 5:28,29 says so. I hope that this provides some sort of comfort knowing that Ryan is resting. This link has some encouraging information that I’d like to share with you. http://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/dead-live-again-tract/dead-live-again/
David says
God is letting him sleep until he turns him into a zombie?
Lisa Biletzke says
I’m heart broken learning of this unimaginable loss. Deepest Prayers and Thoughts to Ryan’s family.
Emily Rivera says
I’m so so SORRY! My Heart is breaking as I weep for you and your family for the loss of the love of your life your baby boy. I will share his story & know that he will live on also I will keep you & your Husband & family in our Prayers! MAY GOD BE WITH YOU UNTIL YOU 3 MEET AGAIN!
Tiffany Ann Larguinho says
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Denise Ruiz says
I have two sons one that’s gonna be 4 in a month and the other who is 1yr9mths. I weep for the family of this
Cynthia says
http://youtu.be/i-hJ87ApWtw
Hold tight to Jesus as he holds Ryan tight. {{{hugs}}}
Dawn says
The feeling of falling in love is like no other and can never be taken by another….♡♡ I pray you find your peace.
Kate says
We live in different countries, we speak different languages, but the sorrow doesn’t know borders. As mom, as human I send my prayers to this family. We will remember this sunny boy, we promise you. Nobody knows right words in this situation, just can send our support.
Kate from far away Moscow
paul says
Wow…….I am so sorry for your loss. The good lord always seems to take the best ones early. Angels in training is what I like to think. All of our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jules says
Alissa – I’m so sorry for your loss. Ryan sounds like such a wonderful soul with some amazing parents. I can’t imagine the heartbreak that everyone is feeling. Ryan will be in my thoughts & prayers. I hope that you take the time that you need to grieve & to help your family go through this. With Love – Jules
molly maci says
I literally cried uncontrollably as I read through this. As a mother, my heart tears in two hearing this store. My husband and I prayed for them last night and I will ask my bible study group to do so also. May the lord provided strength in this moment of grief. There will be no words to heal these broken hearts only through God will these heart heal.
Kelly Levo says
I stumbled across this story on Instagram as someone I follow posted a photo of this beautiful family. I have not been able to stop thinking about them since I read about this tragedy yesterday. I don’t even know what to say. I have two little boys and my world would end if anything ever happened to them. I cannot even fathom the pain they must be feeling. Why do things like this happen- especially to our little ones? You can just feel the love that Ryan must have felt by looking through their photos. I have cried for them, and will continue to pray for them- for courage and peace. I am so, so sorry for them and for everyone who knew that beautiful little boy.
Briana says
My heart goes out to this family. May God give you peace and strength as you endure this. There are no words.
cassandra powell says
Just wanted to let you know we took a moment as a family to pray today.cassa
kristina says
Jacqui, and Dan, I would like you to know that you are not alone. Undoubtedly, Ryan is very much with you, around you and in your heart- right next to you always. He will be your angel, your guide and your friend the rest of your lives. He is not lost, but has changed forms. Remember that we, all of us who know this story, are with you too. We love you, we support you and we know that you are hurting. Prayers, love, hugs and positive thoughts for comfort and peace are being sent your way, and will never stop. I will think of you forever…I will. I wish you peace, and the love and comfort of all your memories of your beautiful son. You clearly did everything to give Ryan the life any child would want, you are amazing people, I can see it in your pictures. You will continue to be blessed. xx
Bri says
My heart and prayers go out to sweet Ryan and his family. What a beautiful soul that I never met but can already tell I love him and will share his story.
anna whiston-donaldson says
I am so very sorry for the loss of beautiful Ryan! I, too, lost a precious son and would be honored to reach out to Ryan’s mom and dad. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Perhaps they can find some hope or comfort on my blog.
With much love, Anna.
http://www.aninchofgray.blogspot.com
daisy m says
how san that these parents have to go threw this I have a baby girl who is 2 and she is my only child and I could not imagine if something would happen to her i am so sorry for the lost of there handsome boy. my prayers to the family. even though he is in a better place. breaks my heart. red balloons for Ryan
t mccard says
My friend endured a similar fate. Her daughter and grandson of only two weeks old were murdered. Please share a prayer for my friend and I’m praying for this family too. There’s power in prayer. Where two or more are gathered in my name so shall i be. Thank you
Allie Kowallis says
My heart is aching for this sweet family. I would love to make a cross stitch for them at no cost, obviously! Check out my etsy shop and message me if you can. I don’t know this family and I don’t know you, but my prayers for them aren’t enough. Thanks!
http://www.etsy.com/shop/astitchinggoodtime
Tammie says
I’m so sorry for your deep rooted pain and loss. May God hold you close and be with you always.,praying.
Doree says
I don’t know this family. but, I do know that god will wrap his loving arms around this family and bring them peace when it’s time. I cried for this lovely family. and I will be praying for strength and courage to move forward with there little boy always in there hearts.
whimsygizmo says
Many, many prayers for this precious family. There are no words.
Elvie Diaz says
TEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He so beautiful!!! I cant imagine, Im sooo sorry! XOXOXOXOXO I will not forget your sons name or face! His red hair so divine.
Tiffany Cruz says
Jacqui is our niece, and we cannot thank everyone enough for your prayers and actions. As we visited with Jacqui on Sunday, she wept as she asked me to promise that we wouldn’t let our sons forget Ryan. What has happened in the last few days, with such an outpouring of love, affirms her hopes that Ryan will never be forgotten by more people than she ever imagined. Thank you so much.
Traci says
How very very heartbreaking!
Sara says
My heart goes out to Jacqui and Dan. I can’t even imagine what you are going through. Please take comfort in knowing that your son whom I have never met or seen before has touched my heart deeply. His pictures are so beautiful. I know he blessed everyone who knew him. I pray that your family stays strong during this difficult season in your life.
Lisa says
Words can never express the loss of a child. I’m so saddened by this horrific tradgedy and hope that if something good can come out this, let it be that we not take advantage of the everyday blessings we hold. I will pray for this family that they may one day have heart that is not so heavy until they see there beloved son again in heaven.
Joanne hicks says
No mother should have to go through the heart break of losing their child. My heart goes out to beautiful Ryan’s parents and family. It was obvious he was to beautiful for this earth, god wanted him in his beautiful garden full of beautiful babies. Xx
Maggie May Ethridge says
I shared on Facebook to show Ryan’s beautiful little face. My mother’s heart is grieving of your friend and I hope she sees all the love here. I have a little girl, 3 and half. The love of a parent is forever.
Rebecca says
I will never forget Ryan, he changed my life. I am so sorry. As a mother, I offer the family love and support wherever I can. I won’t forget Ryan, ever.
http://www.dizmommy.com/2014/05/the-most-painful-letter-i-am-compelled.html
Jeanie says
I don’t do Instagram, Facebook, blog, etc., but the family is in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry. Just can’t even imagine.
Dana says
My Heart goes out to you and your family..I know exactly how you feel , My little girl went to Heaven11 days b4 she turned 2..I Lost her exactly the same way…Just no your not alone…I know your pain and how hopeless you feel and how you may blame yourself….. Pray..Cry..Talk about him…Get in support Groups…There is no time limit to Grieving.. I will keep you in my Prayers…God is Always Close to the Broken Hearted..
Marjorie says
My heart drops to my feet whenever I think of his sweet face and I can’t imagine what Dan and Jacqui are going through. Let them know that Ryan is being loved from all over the world.
Maegen @ The Modern Tulip says
Shatters my heart to pieces. I’ve said countless prayers for this family since finding out this morning. And I’ll keep on! Posting to my blog tomorrow too. Such a terrible tragedy
christina says
I saw Ryan’s photos and story on facebook and wept and wailed for this beautiful family. The love in their eyes in these photos is so huge and I cannot believe this happened to them. I’m so sorry Ryan that you had to go but maybe you were taken because you are such a beautiful child that if there is anything beyond this life then you have already fulfilled your time here and will be in a better place. I’m not religious but as soon as my son was born 4 months ago I have been clinging to more spiritual thoughts because I am so scared of losing my son to something as random as what happened to Ryan. I don;t want to live everyday fearing losing him so that I may enjoy our time together and have faith he will be okay but this tragedy validates my fears so I will cherish every moment I have with my beautiful boy. Thank you Ryan and your family for reminding me to live life fully everyday.
Lori says
I will too share. I have an in home daycare and love these kids so much. One holiday while kids were home with parents celebrating with a cook out and swimming, one of the 2 year olds I watch got away from mom and dad and went to the pool and drowned. This is a horrible thing for parents to go through, although I do not know how deeply their pain really is. I just know what I seen through this family. I know how I felt and still feel, so I can only only imagine the pain, grief, and guilt they have. God has these babies for reason, why? We do not know, but what we do know is they are with him, they are home, waiting for us, someday to arrive.
Sami Jo C says
I am so unbelievably sorry for the loss of this wonderful little boy! My heart breaks for you especially mom and dad! I just can’t imagine. May he rest in peace with Jesus! Sending my prayers!
Brandie says
Heanely Father let your ever gently and loving presence be know in this family’s hear, mind and sould!! Let there be peace for this precious little boys parents, family and friends in knowing he’s in heaven smiling down on everyone of them. Let their hearts weigh heavy that they too can, do and will have strength through you and only you to finish their life on earth in a way that they will one day join their precious little man in heaven. Heavenly Father be with them day and night to wipe the tears and display the lite they will need to make it through!! Amen <3
Carrie says
Psalm 73:26 My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Probably the saddest thing anyone can go through on this earth is loosing a child:( May God give them strength and reveal to them some kind of sign that their son is still alive and being unconditionally loved forever!
Cassie says
I lost my mother almost 6 mnths ago to a man hitting her as she was walking out of wal-mart to go on her break, so in some ways I do know how you feel.. But loosing a child that little I do not understand, and can’t imagine what you all must be going through. Honestly there is nothing I can say that will ease your pain, but I do pray for God to give you comfort in dealing with the loss of your handsome little boy Ryan..
Charlotte says
Thank you so very much for sharing this story… I’m so so saddened to read of this unimaginable heartache this beautiful family has to go through 🙁 I will do all that I can do honor sweet Ryan’s memory. XOXO
Melissa says
this was beautifully written about such a tragic incident. i never got to meet Jacqui or Ryan, but I got to see their beautiful photos on instagram. As a mother, my heart breaks for them. As family, my heart breaks even more. I wish I could have met him. I will do what I can to help carry out his memory.
REDBALLOONSFORRYAN says
My prayers go out to the family of little Ryan, mommy Jacqi, daddy Dan & the extended family .Words can’t express what you’re going through but hold on to God & He will take you guys thru this in His arms. Psalm 23 # redballonsforRyan
Nicole says
My heart and prayers to the family of this precious little boy who has left this earth far to soon. Please know that you have the love of support of so many and that your beautiful boy will always be remembered. After seeing the pictures, I cannot get the vision out of my head of the contagious smile and those locks of fiery red hair.
Kathleen says
My little boy died in 2009 after an accident at home. He was 2.5. There are no words to describe the horror of burying your child. I’m so sorry for this family. My heart aches for them. I know the long, lonely journey before them. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. When your child first dies, everyone rallies around. It’s the time 6 months from now, 12 months from now, two years from now, that your friends will need you most. The time when shock wears off and everyone else has gone on with their life and your only thought is of your little child that no one talks about. Talk about Ryan. Always. Your friend needs to hear his name-not just today, or this month or this year, but ALWAYS.
Esteban says
My family’s hearts and souls will be connected to you all through prayer in support of Dan and Jacqui and in memory of their beautiful little boy.
Rebecca Rivera says
As a mother who lost a child I understand this pain. My heart goes out to Ryan’s parents. God will give you the strength to go on and time will help you to manage the pain.
Whitney Eklund says
This makes me want to cry my eyes out. I’m so sorry for your loss, there is nothing I can think to say other than I pray for everyone’s heart that is grieving the loss of this sweet angel. Heartbroken for you, in Northern California.
Tina Huntzinger says
God Bless Jacqui and Dan, you are in my prayers as is Ryan as he is in God’s arms.
neighor says
what about the driver that had no choice because the parents were inside the house ???????? poor truck driver and family
Sherry Balsano says
Parent’s are not meant to outlive their children – but most especially at this young age. I ache for all their memories that have been shattered and for the loss of what should have been! My prayers are with them and Ryan.
Lady says
My husband’s little sister was hit by a car when she was 3 1/2. He was five at the time but still remembers his parents friend scrubbing the street. It is so unfair, and tragically sad. We are not promised any amount of time on this earth. We should cherish each mundane day. I know these sweet parents will see their Ryan again, just like I know my husband and his parents will see the sweet girl they lost 31 years ago.
Maria says
My sincere sympathy from my heart. I have no exact words to say to ease the pain in their heart….be strong for your son.
Ashley Cox says
Dear mother,
I have also lost my child. I need some one to talk to had well.
Ashley
A lost mother
wickedlove1991@gmail.com
Venice LeRoy Liston says
OH my gosh , prayers for the mommy and daddy , I cant imagine we can see how much they loved him .. It is not fair at all I dont understand at all and I am a Christian but i dont understand , im sorry my heart hurts for you .. you are precious people and i pray God please , please give them peace..
Lara Torrey says
After reading this story before going into work yesterday morning, I haven’t had a waking moment of not thinking and/or praying about this tragedy. This story hits SO close to home as my parents had the exact same tragic accident happen to my brother Brent, who was 7 at the time. My family lost Brent three years before I was born but that has never changed the fact that I have 3 siblings, not 2. I have a five year old son who shares Brents last name, my parents are still very happily married and my parents celebrate Brent’s birthday every year. Ryan’s legacy will live on! If in the future Jacqui and Dan need to talk to a couple that have gone through this – my Mom and Dad would be a huge help.
beverly steele says
I am so sorry for the great loss of this sweet boy. I pray for peace and comfort for his family and your family….
Mary E. Callahan says
Hi my name is Mary I can only say I’m so, so sorry for your loss. Try not to blame God. l too have dealt with and still deal with the loss of a child. It never goes away and please take as long as you need. It’s been almost 5 years since my child passed away, some days are easier than others. My heart goes out to you as well as my prayers. He is always with you. I send my love to you.
heamaccs116cgsp14 says
Sending them prayers from our family to theirs……
darcy says
Scrolling through my IG I came across a little boy with flaming red hair thought what a cutie! Didn’t read kept scrolling…hours past and I couldn’t stop thinking about him. Jumped back on and came across another picture of this adorable boy and thought he must be the new model I agree… to finally reading “please help”, my heart sank to my stomach thought no wait, quick to think please god, all is well. To finally after reading multiple pages just to confirm not wanting it to be true that this little boy who seriously cought my heart my thoughts in seconds was gone quick to see what I can do to help I jumped to donate although like many im sure we’ve wished if I could just bring him back. I came across Jacqui page babyboybbakery and im heart broken for her and her husband dan, the love for their boy was so strong and felt through these precious moments they snapped and shared with the IG family, I can’t stop thinking about you and your family my heart my prayers my thoughts are with you. Seeing the quick love and support IG family has done is so beautiful and amazing. The support is so touching. Jacqui, Dan im so sorry this is happening I dont no you guys personally but just with the family pictures filled with love for your little boy I felt that connection. I can’t stop thinking of you guys and wish I could take the suffering away I wish all this was just a bad dream.
Moe says
Please PM me a snail mail address… I’m a paper crafter and would love yo get my fellow card makers to rally and send messages of love. My email is stampinmoe@yahoo.com
Dawn says
Praying for comfort through the grief for all of you
Audrey says
My son Joshua was 2 when he ran out into the street and was hit and killed by a small pick up truck. Even all these years later I struggle to find the words when I hear of someone else losing a child. Reading your words made me ache for Dan and Jacqui and then learning that my cousin’s daughter Jessica went to college with Jacqui, left me heartbroken all over again . . . it was Jessica’s parents that went with me to Forest Lawn to view Joshua. Our family is holding you all very close in our hearts right now.
I’m still sitting here, 25 minutes after sitting down to leave this comment, struggling to find the words, or just something to say that might help, but I know that those words don’t exist. So, instead I’ll just ask you to let Dan and Jacqui know that I’m holding them close in thought and prayer and sending love and thoughts of peace. I hate that they . . . well I can’t say the words, but I can promise that I’ll remember Ryan and when I look upward, I’ll remind Joshua to take Ryan’s hand and show him around up there.
Alissa Circle says
Oh friend, I just weeped over this post! I can only imagine how hard it’s been to pick up the pieces and begin to move forward. Praying for peace. Thank you for leaving a comment. I know this will mean so much to Dan and Jacqui to know they are not alone in this and that there are others who can walk alongside them on this journey. xo
Nancy says
Audrey, I’m so sorry for your loss. I read your post and must say you made my heart melt with your comment on this blog entry! I’m sure your baby boy will make Ryan feel welcome in heaven and show him around
Alissa, Ryan will never be forgotten and tell his parents his graduation to Heaven was not in vain. He is a young hero as I live on a busy street and plan to get a fence around my house to avoid such tragedy as I have a 1 and a 3 1/2 year old. My thoughts and prayers are with the family
Donna Ptak says
We’re sisters in grief now Audrey. I posted my story above. It’s hard to find the right words. What comforted me were friends that called me on the phone and just let me cry. The ones that popped over in person and let me pour my heart out. I know it was hard even for them to be around me, but I needed that. I truly treasured the time friends (even strangers) took to console me personally rather than through email and text messages. Tough times for a long time.
samantha says
So incredibly sad!! My thoughts and prayers go out to this family in such a difficult time.
Brandi Phillips says
I am so sorry for your loss of Ryan. My prayers are with you all!
Theresa Sollars says
Tears
Nick says
May god bless you. I’m so very sorry for the loss. I will continue praying. May he cover you with the blood of Jesus Christ always.
Marcela says
Hi my name is Marcela and i am from Brasil,i follow them on instagram and then i learned that he died , my heart just broke, i cry, then i put my arms around my baby gir and that make me cry even harder i just realized that they won’t be able to do this never again,No parent should ever have to outlive their sons. and today I’ll be praying for this family, thanking God for mine, and hugging my baby girl a little tighter.
crystal perkins says
I believe your baby is in heaven, waiting for you, laughing and at peace, and hugging you every day with his spirit. May your home continue to grow in love for his memory.
jliff says
I heard about this story yesterday and have been thinking of Ryan ever since. I am so, so sorry for this family’s loss – the love that comes through Jacqui’s Instagram feed is amazing and Ryan looks like he was such a beautiful and spirited child. I hope everyone involved in this tragedy is able to find some comfort knowing how many of us will now remember their sweet boy.
Katie says
Oh my God. About 27 years ago my younger brother was struck by a car after chasing a red ball down our driveway. I saw it and remember it like it was yesterday. He was almost 3 and it happened in May. He survived with a traumatic brain injury and months in a coma followed by the same in the hospital. We know how lucky we are that he survived and every day is considered a gift. Your story is so familiar to me . I’m so sorry to hear that this little beautiful angel lost his life and my heart goes out to the parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents, friends and anyone who was touched by this little angel. His parent’s lives are forever changed in ways they can’t possibly predict. I pray the support and love continues to flow in for them over the next days, weeks, months, years. When I look at the happy family they were I clearly see my parents and Kevin just days before the accident. My heart is with you.
Amber Roy says
He will wipe away every tear from their eyes. Sadness and sorrow will flee and gladness and joy will overtake them on that day when they are reunited with precious little Ryan. This is a promise. Praying and thinking of them all through the day. This is so very very heartbreaking. I cannot imagine the pain….May you shine through this Jesus even though we don’t get it. Even though it makes us question your goodness. Thank you that you are from everlasting to everlasting and you remain the same, you remain good. Thank you that you weep along with Jaquie and Dan. May they feel you closer to them than ever before and may Ryan’s story bring many to you.
Alice says
Amber I’m so glad you quoted that scripture in Revelation 21:3,4 which is actually a promise from God to us that’s what he is going to do in a near future through his Kingdom directed by Jesus Christ and he promise there that death will be no more, that means that we will no suffer any more like we are doing right now because death is not what God intended for us death is actually an enemy as it says in 1Cor 15:26 and he will end that but not just that we actually have a beautiful hope for the lost of our loved ones in John 5:28,29 if you guys want to find the answer to sush questions like what does the Bible promise for the future? why do humans suffer? And what happens when someone dies? Please send me an email I will be glad to answer those questions with the Bible aliciavaldez@mac.com or go to jw.org
Aiyana says
I am sorry for your friend. You are right, no parent should lose a child. NO parent. But, so many people say this yet they still eat veal & they go to places like SeaWorld & support the companies that kill babies! If you have ever lost a child, then you know what it is like for the Orca who had her baby ripped from her. The cow that had it’s baby literally ripped out of her, premature so she can be attached to a milking machine until she collapses from exhaustion. And the baby sent to veal makers. There is so much humanity when people speak of humans, but they lack so much of it when it comes to other species. I hate that I had to use this to spread awareness, but people need to begin to realize that we are animals, too! And there is a dire need for respect within the animal kingdom. Animals feel just like we do! Some, like dolphins & orca, have even MORE emotion than we do! They usually commit suicide when their children are stolen from them or killed.
This should NEVER happen to any parent. So, if you can do something about it, why wouldn’t you? Do NOT go to Marine Parks. Do NOT buy meat from a slaughterhouse. Do NOT support the mass dairy industry. There ARE local farms who milk their cows by hand. If you can’t find one, then drink goat milk or coconut milk. Just watch a single documentary on what the industry does to these animals. If you can still buy the products after that, then you are a person that doesn’t care what happens to anyone but yourself. And maybe you deserve to lose a child or suffer yourself.
Jill says
Oh, I am so so sorry. What a horrible tragedy:(
Amy says
As I stand an watch my children sleeping in their beds I thank myself how lucky I am to have them!
I can’t even think to begin how a mother must feel after losing something so special and beautiful to her!
My heart goes out to her and her husband
At this sad time!
May your little soldier rest in peace and may the angels above take extra care if him until his mummy and daddy reunite with him!
Melanie says
I can not tell you how sorry I am, My heart is heavy for you all. I know all to well the pain that you are feeling. I pray that you find peace, comfort, understanding and healing during this difficult time. I do not understand why for some time on earth is so short, but I can say that I feel like Ryan accomplished what he came here to do. He brought a family together, he helped to make a lasting bond, and now even in passing he has joined so many people together, to remind us to stand together and pray to love, and to cherish the moments that we have with friends and family, because time is not promised. I thank you, I thank them for sharing their sons smiles with the world. He was a beautiful young boy, who is only gone in body, but not in spirit. Ryan you will not be forgotten, because the imprint that you have made on so many is a lasting imprint, your family was so blessed to have you and although your time here was so short, the photos of you and your family
Melanie says
tell an amazing story of love.
Chris says
I happened to be a random neighbor walking down the street with my young family right before this happened. I ran back and was one of the first on the scene. Such a tragedy and a sad way to meet all those close to Ryan! But our hearts and prayers are pouring out to you and we turn our thoughts to the Lord — the only one who can heal anyone who goes through this type of trial. We want to help but the outpouring of love and support for this family also helps us neighbors heal, even though we didn’t know them very well. We are all pulling together to remember Ryan and we love you all so much! Families can be together forever! We will be sending some red balloons skyward on Mother’s Day for you guys.
Melanie says
Hello my name is Melanie Marroquin and I heard about your tragic loss. I am so sorry and my prayer goes out to your family . I am wanting to help you family because I know times like these are really tough I lost my 8 year old cousin in a car accident . I am currently working on publishing my own children’s book . One of my ideas is traffic safety . I heard about what happened to Ryan and would like to dedicate the book to him with your permission . For every purchase of the book I will donate to your family . Hoping you get back to me no rush about it take your time and when your ready feel free to contact me. Just want to let you guys know you are not alone in this and Jesus loves you. Never forget you are not alone . God bless you .
Melanie Marroquin
Krystina Winchester says
I am very sorry for your loss of your sweet little boy. I too have lost a son. My little angel was 2 years 5 months and 8 days old when he went to be with Jesus. It has been almost 23 months now and it feels like it was yesterday. If you need to vent or talk feel free to email me or find me on facebook. gracey22@gmail.com…I wont say it gets easier because it doesn’t but eventually you will find what I call “a new normal.”
jennifer says
MAY GOD BRING YOU HEALING AND PEACE. BLESS THIS LITTLE BOY AND HIS FAMILY. MY HEAVY HEART AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
Meredith says
I am so sorry for the family who are mourning the loss of their precious little boy. I know, as well, that there are many of others, acquaintances, relatives, etc, who are also mourning. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Rhianna Lynn says
I am so truly sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers. Rest in peace Ryan.
Amy says
Thank you for sharing this, Alissa. We vow to keep precious Ryan’s memory alive and all of his family and friends in our every day thoughts and prayers. Blessed Be.
MB says
I am so sorry for your loss. I do not know you or your friend, but after hearing Ryan’s Story I feel like I do. My heart breaks for this family because like many people have said, no parent should have to lose a child. I wanted you to know that I’ve been in the position you are in. My best friend lost not one child, but two. No words can describe the pain and agony your friend feels. She needs you so much, to hug her, to help her and to remember her child. The grieving process is never over. The pain never really goes away. I know how difficult it is to tell your own children that their best friend has gone to heaven. I know that faith is all you have when the sadness is unbearable. I pray that God’s healing hands will surround you and your family in this time of need. I remember someone saying to me that when tragedy strikes you can either run away from God or to God. He is the only one that can fill the pain and emptiness you have with hope and love. You will feel Ryan’s presence in the colorful sunsets, in the butterfly fluttering by, in the laughter of other children, in the silence and darkness of the night and in the brightness of a new day. It will take time to heal, but you will feel him and you will always remember. He will be forever young. God bless you and all those that loved Ryan.
LM says
Oh my gosh, prayers to Jacqui & Dan. I can’t even imagine the earth shattering pain that their tragic loss of their son has caused. Know that God is an amazing healer & comforter and in time the fog will lift. Ryan will forever be an angel., watching over them <3
Jackie says
I don’t know this couple, but I have a 3 and 1/2 year old. My heart hurts so much for this couple and their suffering. Their precious little boy, I can tell from the pictures, has an amazing spirit, and is watching over them now trying to help their wounded hearts. I will pray.
Rachel says
Found your blog. Started reading and then just started praying for Jacqui and Dan. Words are difficult to find so I will just continue to pray that Jesus wraps his comforting arms around all of you.
Krystal R. says
I know what loss feels like. I had a recent loss of a loved one in March, I heard this story and my heart cried because I know all to well how they feel. May God grant them peace!
jesse says
I cant fathom what you are going thru, i became a father for the first time to a baby boy 4 months ago and after reading this my heart hurts for the both of you. I am truly sorry for your loss and i hope over time things get better.
Shannon says
My heart is so heavy and please know that you all are being held in prayer. Asking God for his mighty presence of comfort.
jennifer shields says
First I would like to say “I am so sorry for your loss!” I too, have lost my daughter Mckenzie, and there is no greater pain in the world then experiencing the loss of a child. It’s just not suppose to happen. Your not suppose to out live your children. My heart weeps for the both of u and I pray that you guys can turn to each other for comfort n support and remember you are still a family and that Ryan will ALWAYS be a part of that! I don’t know why God calls on some of us so early but he does and I would like to think that it’s just because he needs them to help him with something important….and how privileged we truly are to of had such a special joy in our lives, if only for a short time. My family and I are thinking of all of you and sending prayers for you! I wanted to write something that would send some light into your heart in this time of darkness but there isn’t really anything anybody could say right now, I guess….Please hold on to each other and don’t give up on hope n faith n life and know in ur heart that you will all be united again! I know you don’t know me, but I’m here for u if u would like to talk to somebody that’s been through it also, and if not, then just know that there is still good in this world and you are loved! Ryan, you will be missed and r loved so much….especially by your Mommy and Daddy! Watch over them now beautiful sweet little angel!
Nicole says
What a beautiful boy!
I don’t understand some of these people out there on Facebook and their comments. . There is no need to be so rude and careless. These people don’t need your mean comments and insulting hindsights. They are in enough pain. No one is asking you to mourn if you don’t want to. I doubt you’re on the Facebook pictures of fallen soldiers asking how does this one mean more than the neighbor down the street who died in the war. Not everyone puts everything on social media so if you dont have anything nice and supportive to say keep your mouth shut and keep scrolling.
lisalflowers says
Unimaginable. 🙁
marie says
Thanks for letting us share and pass on love to the family.
Shanna says
Im am soo deeply sorry for their Loss.. i pray in the name of Jesus that God will comfort them during this sad time and give them the strength and Grace that is needed to pull through this tragedy. My heart felt sympathy to the family. Your Ryan is an Angel that will always be with you<3<3
Patricia says
I don’t know if this will reach Ryan’s mom and dad. I just wanted to let you know that your story reaches far… Not just in distance, but in our hearts. Ryan is rejoicing in the glory of God. And like king David said, he might not be able to come to you, but you will go to him. May The Lord give you peace and comfort in knowing that he lives forever, and keep your eyes on God. Draw close to Him, your strength comes from The Lord. Always dreaming of the day you will see you little Ryab again. He is beautiful, and you both are as well. God bless you!
Almiki says
How you bring religion into this. Instead of praying to god which has been shown time and time again that it does absolutely nothing. Maybe go out and do something about it? Instead of talking to your imaginary friends.
Sandra Broussard says
I met little Ryan last year in San Bernardino at the UCLA football camp. My son is a UCLA football player that is roommates with little Ryan’s cousin Tre Hale. I remember seeing him and saying his hair is such a beautiful red and his little face is so fair he’s so sweet. My heart is broken for his parents and his family, I can’t imagine the pain his family is going through. Little Red you and your family are in my prayers.
julie says
Hi. Although I do not know any of you personally, the sadness that has overcome me the last two days and the tears I have shed, have made me feel like I do. Ryan has been in my mind all day and night. I cannot stop thinking about him and your beautiful family. I cannot help but place myself in your shoes and imagine the pain of losing my own little boy. I know nothing in the world can compare to the unconsolable grief that you are going through, and it is hard for me to find the right words to offer you comfort and peace during this very difficult time. You’re in my thoughts, you’re in my prayers, and I feel like Ryan is with me. He’s with all of us thousands of people who by sharing his story and wearing red or carrying a balloon in his honor, fell in love with this precious little angel. Ryan’s story taught me something valueable, it reminded me of the smallest things that we must do each day to cherish our loved ones and I will carry that with me the rest of my life. I hope you can find the strength to move forward each day and take some solace in all of the amazing memories you shared together. Ryan is with us forever in our minds and in our hearts, and his light will continue to shine bright through his everlasting love for you.
MIchelle says
My heart is aching as Im looking at my own 4yr old red headed son. I can’t imagine the pain there going through. May the lord reach out his hand to all of you and give the peace that is needed in such a tragedy. My prayers are with you. May God be with you till you all meet again~!
Rosario says
RIP..LITTLE ANGEL! 🙁
Jenny says
All the way down in Argentina, Buenos Aires, we’re praying for you. Go to Jesús for answers, for healing, for guidance, for everything. Nothing makes sense without Him who gave His only Son so we, one day, can be reunited with our loved ones forever. king David also lost a baby boy, and he knew though his son could not come to him anymore, he would go to his son one day… There’s hope amidst grief. Much love and may God bless you and keep you both. #RedBallonsForRyan He will not be forgotten.
Jorgine says
My heart is aching for this family I am so sorry for your loss may Ryan rest in peace and dance with the angels in heaven.
Jorgine says
Not sure my last comment posted I’m so sorry for your loss my heart is aching for Ryan and his parents. I will post the pics for Ryan May he rest in peace and dance in heaven with the angels. I am praying for you guys.
Jules says
Tears come, and there are no words. I am so sorry for the loss of this sweet boy who is now a beautiful angel, and will pray for you and your dear friends through this! <3
Lynn says
It’s just heartbreaking when someone so small leaves so soon. My mom used to say everyone has a day & a way (they will leave this earth). I know that’s true…but we don’t expect a little person’s to be so soon. What a beautiful boy he was!
tami says
I all too well know your loss…in 1987 I lost my two sons Shane (9) and Garth (6) to a horrific tractor trailer accident.. let God fill your heart with peace and joy, and thank him for “choosing” you to be Ryans parents. I will be praying for your family as you walk through the loss of your beautiful son…RED BALLOONS FOR RYAN!!! <3
Kellie Hart Cobb says
My spirit reaches out to them and sends comfort, strength & courage to deal with the unspeakable tragedy that they have endured…There are no words invented that can express the pain of losing a child…in any way….I will do my part as a mother to help keep Ryan’s memory alive…God Bless Them and Keep them during this time…#redballoonsforryan
inez says
I can’t imagine going through what you are going through now…it has to be one of the hardest things in life…we don’t always know what God’s plan is, but you must find comfort in knowing that your son is now with the greatest father of all…know that your son is feeling so much love and warmth and was greeted by other family member that passed before him…know that we all have you in our prayers and that you will get through this…lean on to God for he is the one with all the answers…God bless both of you and I pray that you find some comfort and peace with your son’s passing…you will see him again one day…
ginger says
I’m so sorry for your loss, I can’t imagine what you are are going through, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family<3
Nicole says
I’m sitting here weeping because I can NOT fathom the pain this family and you are enduring. My best friend lost her baby boy after just having alittle over 2 months of joy/bliss. I saw what she went through. I’m very sorry for your loss. I will help keep Ryan’s memories/life alive. I found this poem years ago after my Mother passed along to Jesus. I would like to pass it along to you and Ryan’s family as well. God Bless you Honey and Ryan’s Family.
An Angel’s Kiss
-Peggy Bouse
We go through life so often,
not stopping to enjoy the day.
And we take each one for granted,
As we travel on our way.
For in your pain and sorrow,
An Angel’s Kiss will help you through,
This kiss is very private,
For it is meant for only you.
We never stop to measure,
Anything we just might miss.
But if the wind should blow by softly,
You’ll feel an Angel’s Kiss.
A kiss that is sent from heaven,
A kiss from up above.
A kiss that is very special,
From someone that you love.
So when, your hearts are heavy,
And filled with tears and pain,
And no one can console you,
Remember once again…
About the ones you grieve for,
Because you sadly miss.
And the gentle breeze you took for granted,
Was just an Angel’s Kiss.
Renee says
My heart is broken for this family. May they find strength in the memories of the precious time they had with this sweet boy. As a mommy of two boys, this tragedy hits my heart at the core…I can picture my little one doing the same thing…chasing afer a runaway ball, or his older brother…this is a loss that no parent should have to endure. May Jacqui and Dan know that a world of moms and dads are thinking of them and praying for them.
Patty says
What a beautiful little angel I pray that God we’ll comfort you guys with his amassing grace since he need and angel with him he chose the most beautiful little angel on earth
Michelle says
I’m truly sorry for your loss. RIP Sweet Ryan
Dara says
Praying for comfort…so sad. love to you and your sweet ryan.
Juliet Belkin says
I am so sorry for this tragic loss! Such a beautiful child! Such a beautiful family! Stay strong , hold on to each other, it wasn’t anyone’s fault! It was an accident! He is with angels! Sending you lots of strength and love! xoxoxo
stacy says
Thinking of ryans family!!!! please know there is alot of love flowing your way in this hard time of your life….sweeeeeet juju for you.all….i will def keep u in my meditations and heart!!!
Tina says
<3 <3 <3 Highest thoughts and prayers to you all! <3 <3 <3
Tia Ayden'smommy Campbell says
May our Lord above be with Ryan’s family through such a rough time. We will never understand lifes tragedies but understand this the lord has better plans for us then we have for ourselves and he will never put something on us that we could not handle. God bless!
Diane Cone says
Christ WILL give you Strength! Praying and believing that healing and spiritual answers will come to you through this most devastating time of your life. Cling to the Lord and each other, for a three stranded rope is stronger than one.
Heidi Klingensmith (@HeidiSK2013) says
Dear Dan and Jacqui,
I cannot fathom or even come close to imagine what you’re going thru right now. I am so very sorry for your loss. Although we don’t quite understand why Ryan was taken from you so early in life, I guaruntee you that his beautiful face, red hair, and sweet smile will be remembered by so many. I can tell you that I will share your story, especially with my two little ones, so that they too will remember him. Just because they didn’t know him doesn’t mean we can’t keep him in our hearts forever. For what it’s worth, hang in there, in time it will get easier, and don’t forget now he’s watching over you from heaven. He is now your sweet Guardian angel.
Angie says
My heart is breaking for Ryan’s family. As a Mom who has experienced the loss of a 3-1/2 year old little boy, I know what they are going through, and I know what they are going to go through. It is very difficult. You are right Alissa, they do need a lot of support, not just now, not just 2 weeks from now, but for years to come.
Alissa, as Jacqui’s best friend, I will be praying for your strength, to be able to walk beside her in this journey. I have a dear friend who has been there for me and my family since the night of my son’s tragic accident. She cries with me, remembers with me & shares with me, when nobody else will. She has been such a huge blessing to me, in my journey.
God bless all of you!
Godspeed little man, Ryan <3
Lauren Nicole says
My heart is broken after reading this… Prayers for everyone who is mourning from the loss. May God give you all strength in this time when strength is hard to find. No one should ever have to go through this. Thank God they will see this little angel again one day. <3
Much love, prayers, and peace for you all.
Julie Azhadi says
Our ability to see is so blunted by a grief so profound, it may seem that God is missing for awhile, He is there counting your tears- and all those shed for you, they will not be wasted. I am so so very sorry.
sandy says
you are a brave and beautiful woman. hearts are breaking all over the world with yours. my hope is that all the love and shared pain that all the moms are feeling will tenderly surround jaqui and dan as they wake up each day and go to sleep each night. you are a good friend.
Tansy says
I lost my little boy, Zack, on June 4, 2013 to a drowning. His favorite color was yellow and we were planning a yellow-themed 3rd birthday party for him in July. One of the things that has brought a smile to my face were all the yellow balloons that were posted all over Facebook and released around the world in my son’s honor. We are coming up on the 1 year anniversary of my son’s passing, and once again, I’m seeing yellow balloons popping up on Facebook for my son. It helps to know that he isn’t forgotten.
I started a group in my son’s honor on Facebook: Praying for Zachary Gordon. I post pictures and my thoughts and other people share their memories as well. Feel free to join the group, and message me if you need someone to talk to. There are many grief groups on Facebook that have been a great support for me as well.
I will be sharing your son’s picture so you can see all the red balloons as I have seen yellow ones.
kristine Lee says
This is beautifully written. A beautiful tribute to a beautiful little boy. You are an amazing friend.
Marcella Ciccotelli says
Oh! Heart-felt prayers being lifted. As a fellow mom, I just want to run and hug you and Jacqui. The strength and support they receive from friends like you is a beautiful gift from God.
Jordan says
Can’t even imagine what it’s like, sending love and prayers and comfort to you on Mother’s Day! He’s in a better place, God gained another little angel up there. Really hits home to all mothers, count your blessings and be thankful for every moment with your loved ones. God Bless
Cheyenne Bernardo says
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ❤️
Kendra says
This story filled my eyes with tears. Im sorry you have to go through this but u got everyones support ( cali got u and praying for you)
Lizette says
I just came across this blog and read about Ryan, my heart and prayers go out to his family & friends during this very difficult time. I know this!… Heaven has a new little Angel that’s looking down at us.
Love and Prayers all the way from Cedar Rapids, IA = Lizette Willia
Liz says
May God comfort you. He is an absolutley beautiful child. I am praying for peace for you and your family.
Sandy says
I don’t know what to say to a sweet couple who has lost their adorable little angel. I am so sorry doesn’t seem like enough. I can’t even begin to imagine what you are going through. I hope the love you have for each other, and the love and prayers from dear friends, helps get you through this. I pray one day you find comfort and peace!
Pam Keith says
I have been crying ever since I read this. At first I just thought “what a beautiful family”. I start to post about the beautiful child in the photo, and then I read what happened, erased my post still cry. Not every day, but I still miss him. I have never re-married. My h, and read all of the other posts and started crying. My husband was hit by a car when he was 31 yrs. old and died instantly. My daughter hstill cry. Not every day, but I still miss him. I have never re-married. My heart just aches. My heart is aching for your family. Please know that people do care and also feel your pain. Please know that people love your family and understand what you are going through. The old saying “Time heals all wounds”. Sometime’s it takes a very long time to heal. God understands and does not judge. You’ve done nothing wrong but Love Your Precious Child. My Heart is with your entire family and friends. Prayers Daily until whenever.
Jennifer says
I am praying for this family. This tragic story has touched my heart. I can not imagine the pain of losing a child, I am a mother of 3. This beautiful little boy Ryan is now up in heaven with our Lord Jesus Christ! I pray that God brings this family peace and comfort during this difficult time.
kimmie Kyees says
I sit here with tears in my eyes for a child I have never met – what a beautiful bog and amazing tribute you gave to that sweet little boy & his parents – looking through their photos I get an essence of such a strong special family bond – Ryan had such light in his smile and his mom and dad clearly had such love and pride in him. I will pray for Ryan and all those who loved him.
Jenifer says
Just yesterday, my daughter darted across the supermarket parking lot as a truck came through too fast. I screamed and she stopped just a few feet away from it as it passed, my son was just a few feet behind her. She knows better, yet she did it anyway. These things can happen in an instant. So very thankful that my story did not turn into this tragedy. I am so very sorry for your friend’s loss. I cannot imagine the immeasurable grief you all must be feeling. NO parent should have to bury their child. Please God give them strength to get through this horrific time as best they can. Sending prayers to all of you <3 RIP Ryan
Magan says
I read this post yesterday and cried my eyes out. Today, I’ve dressed my children in red, in honor of Ryan. I’m sorry for your loss.
Rachel says
My heart breaks for this family. It is one of my greatest fears, now that I have one of my own, to lose what it is I live for. I hope they find the strength to forgive, accept, and to love again. My deepest condolences to the Jacqui and Dan, and all of the special people in Ryan’s life <3 Rest peacefully beautiful Ryan
Georgianna says
I am so very sadden at the loss. My love, comfort, and prayers go out to you. May his memory hold you through these very tough times. Georgianna Honey/Creative Soul
Ailey says
What a beautiful child & such a tragic loss! May the family and friends find peace in all of the sadness. As the mother of an almost 4 years old, I connected deeply to a tragic swingset accident that occurred on Christmas Eve of 2012. I have followed the story if Ann Reese since her passing and can honestly say she has brought me closer to God. I share this because there have been many times in the past year and a half that I have wondered “why! How could this happen!” as a reaction to tragic stories. I quickly find myself on Ann Reese’s facebook memorial page (Remebering Ann Reese) reading the inspiring comments of her mom. Her family has found a way to cope with thier loss in such an inspiring way. I know through all the tears and grieving, Ryan’s family will too find a way to cope with their loss.
Cici says
So sorry for loss…My thought and prayers are with you
janis says
What a powerful story. So sorry for Ryans family, a parent should not have to endure this kind of pain. My thoughts and prayers are with them. I have my own Ryan , he turns three on tuesday , this makes me want to hold him a little closer, love him a little more, if thats possible. And for sure make him keep that bike out of the street, its so hard to make a three year old understand. GOD bless and keep you.
Amanda says
I cry for the mother and family and hope and pray for peace. I know the world is shattered for them now and I can only imagine the pain and sadness that they are currently going through. I know that little Ryan is safe and his spirit is living, Do not give up on hope or yourselves, he is with you.
Angela says
My heart goes out to the family of this precious child. know your in my thoughts and prayers.
Jennifer says
This story has touched my life. I will continue to pray for continued support, love and prayers for this lovely couple! Ryan will never be forgotten!
Rachel says
Our God is a God of Love and would never cause an event like this. James 1:13. Ecclesiastes 9:11. Very soon Gods original purpose for this earth will be realized and Ryan will be resurrected here on earth. Revelation 21:3,4. The most important thing to realize is that this was not an act of God. He may allow bad things to happen but he is never the cause. This can bring true hope and comfort for this grieving family. There are answers to the difficult questions of why. They are all found in the scriptures. God reveals these things. They are all in my prayers.
Venus Tay says
I know this pain oh so well as my nephew was killed by a drunk driver at 3 yrs old there are no magic words to take the pain away my nephew was killed by a drunk driver who ran away like a coward to his country mexico i have lived with tgis pain for 22 yrs he was my first nephew and i still cry and have not got over it my deepest sympathy and my heart aches for you as i know the pain u feel and how much this can change your life forever god bless and stay strong sending my thoughts love and prayers.Venus
Mary J ODonnell says
What a beautiful child…..please know that this child’s beauty and spirit have reached the east coast. His spirit has traveled and continues on …God Bless
Ameeya McDonald says
This is So sad! Our condolences to you and Ryan’s Family! We lost our Child the same tragic way. Please know that GOD had a better plan for us all. We must fight for Ryan, Ameeya and all those beautiful voices silenced to early due to road traffic collisions! Collisions are preventable! Please fight with us so no other family has to feel this HURT!!!
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/621/736/836/require-accident-prevention-sensors-for-pedestrian-protection-road-safety/
Gail Barbeau-Juarez says
I lost my only son when he was 21 yrs old, I know the pain of losing a child. It doesn’t matter what age or how it happens, its like losing part of your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with this family. I pray for peace and comfort. I don’t know you but I love you!
julie kelly says
Bless you all as you go threw what is so hard. I lost my Mom, my husband, my 2 month old grandson. All are with Jesus. My heart is more at peace but the Lord works with me too. Know I see their pictures and I feel blessed that I had all them in my life.
Lara says
I am deeply saddened to hear of this beautiful child’s loss. My prayers are with this family and my heart goes out to all who have lost a child.
bridget k blakley says
God Bless !! I have shared this with the group C A S S. <3
Mishelle says
Wow. Words allude me. I have two older brothers, and an older sister who is in heaven. Cheryl was my sister although I didn’t know her. She was just a year and a day younger than my now 61 yr old brother (I am 53). See in the fifties there wasn’t a lot of treatment for Leukemia so you just tried to keep them comfortable. My mom told me stories of the journey and was always particularly sad in October, the month of her death. Cheryl was 3 1/2 when she died of this dreaded disease. I will get to meet her someday. God be with this family and yours for this tragic loss
Barbara says
Such a beautiful child. My heart goes out to these parents and I pray for them.
Jae Jones says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Ryan looks like he was just an abundance of beautiful positive energy. I’ll pray that you and your family somehow find comfort through this tragedy. Loosing someone as beautiful and loving as Ryan is heart breaking. I look at the wonderful pictures of him and see someone filled with love and greatness. Be strong through all of this. He’s smiling down on your and holding his small hand to your hearts. Don’t be sad for him. He’s in a better place and I’m sure he wants you and your family to be happy. Celebrate his life and remember him as a wonderful loving human that he was. He’ll be missed but never forgotten. Sending you love and positive vibes!! XOXOXO
Robin Shumays says
I just posted this about Ryan on my facebook page. I have a 3 year old and reading about Ryan is just completely heartbreaking. Any parent grieves for another parent having to endure such a loss. I’m so so sorry.
idalia guadalupe miranda diaz says
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Chris says
My heart is breaking for the loss of Ryan and his parents. I know first hand what it’s like, we lost our daughter when she was 21 years old, a bus accident in India ….
It truly is a nightmare. May I suggest a group called ” The Compassionate Friends ” for families who have lost a child or children.
It’s shared feelings and thoughts of our children with others who also suffer a loss. You can call and talk with a phone friend or read the newsletter online or by mail. It has always been a comfort to me to know I’m not completely crazy, as others suffer with similar grief.
Ryan looks like an amazing little boy, she is the same age as our little
grandniece, Lily ….. so full of life and love. I do not believe in GOD
since their have been other losses in our lives and that’s just the way I feel, however, whatever anybodies beliefs are, please don’t let anyone tell you how long it will take, because there is never a time frame. Get on with you life, I still here that from people and that is just mean and stupid for anyone to say to you. You both need to love and hold each other every single day …. Ryan will never be forgotten and will always be loved, just as my daughter is.
We started a foundation in Cherese’s memory, she always wanted to help children and make a difference in this world. My dear friend, Marilyn, works runs Rascals to Rebels, knows all about our loss. I’m glad you sent the email thru the store, but, heartbroken for the tragic loss of your beautiful son, Ryan. Please feel free to contact me if you want to talk or ask anything. Just last week I met a mom who shared the loss of her 2 year old daughter that drowned 2 years ago …… it will always be difficult and you are changed forever, a huge part of your heart was
ripped out of your chest and that hole will never heal ……
With our deepest most heartfelt sympathy to both parents and all the family and friends who lives are also changed, I wish you peace in your hearts …….
Warmest Regards,
Chris
http://www.cherese.org
Amy says
Can anyone tell me who is the face that is used to represent the campaign and what she has to do with the family? It doesn’t seem to be any person associated with anyone I can find on any story related to the tragedy. I’m so sorry for the family and friends. I’m sure Rancho Cucamonga is devastated as well since it’s a tight night community. Just a little confused about the girl with the coffee cup in her hand. Kelly Francis Garrett is nowhere to be seen or found on Google.
Alissa Circle says
Hi Amy. I’m so sorry I’m just now answering all your questions. My name is Alissa and Jacqui and I have been friends for over 3 years. Our kids were also very good friends. After the accident happened, and during a visit with Jacqui and Dan they had asked me if I would write a post in memory of Ryan. Not thinking that the outpouring and sharing would become what it has, I wrote this post so they could always have a place to come to remember that Ryan will never be forgotten. Jacqui had many friends in the blogging community and when I shared the hashtag it was only so that if her friends wanted to share their sadness and thoughts about Ryan for their family, she could see them. As we know many more (graciously and beautifully) have also shared. Kelly Garrett is a friend of the families and I believe she’s on IG. She set up the Gofundme account where people have donated and the family has full access to the funds. I hope this helps, please feel free to email me with any other questions, as we don’t want people to feel misled in the midst of this tragedy. a@alissacircle.com xo
Elizabeth says
My dear friend, Rachel, lost her little boy, Owen, too, and I wanted to share with you and your friend what happened next. Rachel and her husband felt their boy’s presence so powerfully in the days after the accident, and they both were overwhelmed with the feeling that Owen wanted to return to them in this lifetime. Everyone told them that Owen was running free with Jesus, yet they felt Jesus was telling them that Owen still needed to live out his destiny with them. They also felt that Owen wanted to return to them as a girl! Rachel and her husband took this feeling very seriously and decided to try to get pregnant to allow him to enter this world again. Conceiving had been very difficult with Owen, but they got pregnant right away and 9 months later they were holding him in their arms again — but this time he was indeed a girl, and they named her Lyra. The joy they felt at holding him, nursing him, sleeping with him, playing with him again was overwhelming, and they fell more in love with God and the mysteries of the universe. Lyra is 7yo now and occasionally talks about when she was a boy! They had another baby after Lyra was born, a boy, and they are overjoyed with their two children who love and adore each other. They cherish Lyra as her own individual person, yet at the same time they are filled with love for the spirit of Owen who returned to them. It’s an amazing story. Blessings to you and your dear friends. My heart goes out to them and is filled with prayers for them.
janet says
a tragedy that no parent should endure. may he rest in peace.
Cindy says
As I sat and read the story with a heavy heart all I can do is cry today my 19year old daughter tried to take her life and God intervened so after reading this and knowing just a portion of the sorrows that you and your family are going through That I still have her and he is gone I am so sorry and will be praying for your heart’s to heal.May God bless you and keep you in his arms
Heather Bailey says
I’m sincerely praying for you all. What an excruciating tragedy. I know exactly what you are going through as their close friend. My dear friend’s son passed away just a few weeks ago and my life has been in slow motion as I walk with her on this journey. Be strong. Mostly listen, hug and serve. And keep showing up after the crowds of support thin out.
Rebecca says
I have no words..well, I have many. But they are ones you may have heard many times over. So I send you both many blessings and hugs. My shoulder to hold your tears. My ears open as to hear you tell the memories of you and your family together. My hand to hold when you need comfort. And much love to you both.
May the great spirit give you the comfort to know your little boy will be watching you and smiling every time you look into the sky. Each rain drop that touches your cheek is a small kiss to let you know he is there.
Aho my friends.
Debra Inak says
I am a mom to three little boys at Marengo, near the Saldana’s home. I saw a collection of red balloons and a note about Ryan outside shortly after their neighbor, whose little boys played with Ryan, shared this tragic story. My heart goes out to this family and all the lives this little boy touched. May the Lord give light to his soul and comfort his family. I am certain his parents read to him. I can tell by the brief look I took at her blog that his mother was a “parenting” parent. Please post his favorite book or one of his favorites. I would like to donate it to the library at Marengo in his honor.
Thank you.
Leah says
Wow!!!! First I have to say what a wonderful awesome friend you are to this family!!! My heart has been touched deeply!! Ryan is beautiful and is now an angel with some pretty cool new friends!!! I am so sorry for your loss! Words cannot express… Losing a child has to be simply heartbreaking! Hold on to each other and LOVE each other!!! I will not forget this story and I will NOT forget Ryan’s beautiful face!!!! Peace be with you!!!
Terri says
@alissa cherry I to have been in the same position with my best friend. When she and her husband lost there little boy he was 22 months old. That was 10 years ago…I don’t know how they made it thru or me…time does help. But I still see his precious little face.. May God be with u all for strength and comfort.
Katrina says
Praying for your families loss! May God comfort as only he can and may you and your spouse and family cleave unto each other and hold onto the truth that we will all be joined together with our loved ones in Heaven one day.
Katrina says
Here is a link to another family who lost a child and I just thought they may be an inspiration to y’all’s family. May God bless and comfort as only he can. Thank you and praying for y’all!
Katrina says
https://www.facebook.com/RememberingAnnReese and I’m sorry I kept forgetting to paste the link.
Charlie English says
you my dear are getting blasted on facebook for your insensitive email subject line…
miranda collins says
as a mother that lost a child almost ten yr ago may 27 my heart goes out to you and your family my hope is that you too stay strong bc it is very hard times ahead my prayers are with you all and your family xoxo from Oklahoma
ps what a perfect beautiful little guy that red hair he will never be forgotten
Karin Strop says
There are no answers to this sad loss! I lost my sister in a caraccident, she had 2 small children. Now years later, I have no more parents and no sister,no husband (died 2 yrs ago) no close family. I wish you strengths and my thoughts are with you, regards from Germany
Neva says
Losing a child has to be about the hardest thing ever. I cannot even imagine as I am not even a mother myself and yet i sit here crying. I know God has a purpose in everything and I can take comfort in that. He doesn’t have to explain himself to us, but maybe someday he will.
In christian love I will be praying for Jacqui and Dan. God’s peace is amazing.
teal13202 says
Shared on facebook for you as so many others are doing in solidarity of love and support, during this time of unimaginable loss to all of you.My heart breaks for the loss of such a precious child.
alexandra says
Oh my God ! It s heartbreaking:( I have a small boy named Ryan and i just cannot imagine the pain. RIP Ryan You are with the angels now 🙁
Nicole says
Just wanted to say that Ryan still remains in my thoughts and prayers. Such a precious little boy. He will be remembered always.
britt says
Why wasnt this bitch watching her little boy?
kaya says
Britt you are sick. Seek Help before you spread your disease. the world needs less of you not more.
neighbor in the area says
SEEK HELP.. really they were playing in the street, they taught him not to be afraid of the street…its the parents fault Britt…U R right…. I love in the area and learned what really happened.. why do you think they say he was in the wrong place at the wrong time…. poor driver who had no clue what was coming his life will never be the same….. people in the neighbor know thin
britt says
stop glorifying her for something she did wrong she wasn’t watching her child this is all her fault
neighbor says
yup – a three year old is not responsible for their action – why she is glorified I don’t know – but I know it affect the driver who had no fault in this ..
great aunt judy says
dear dan and jacqui….my only child and son, christopher, died fourteen years ago and i’m sure his grandpa sparky was in heaven to greet him just as he was there to greet his little great grandson ryan. God does indeed have a wonderful plan not only for ryan but for us all, of that i am sure. believe me, time does ease your grief and you will one day be with him again.
love to you both and my brother allan and sister kathleen. judy pinney
Bob Mann says
Only someone who has lost a child can truly understand your feelings at this time. We lost our grandson in June of this year in an industrial accident. Our lives have changed as I know Ryan’s parents lives have changed forever. My heart aches for them and they are in my prayers. Bob
marisol garcia figaredo says
Wow from Mexico Los Cabos, finished wathching her on Ellens Degeneres Show, and trully respect all her family of going through something so tuff, mi englis is not so good but for sure I have prayed for Ryan. I have a 3 year old and just can imagine how tough this must be, is amazing to see how many pepole from all over the world Ryan has touched us.
mary morrall says
Just heard about baby boy bakery, as Ellen had Jacque on her show, so I looked up her blog.my heart just breaks for her and her husband, all you seeon fb is adults who abuse there childrenl. And then people who are so devastated over the loss of there child.my heart goes out to her and her husband, they will be in my thoughts and prayers.Ryan looked so happy, thats all due to his parents giving him the best they coukd in such a short time.They have precious memories.
connie says
What a beautiful tribute to your friends and little ryan. What beautiful pictures this breaks my heart I can’t imagine the pain. I pray you all find peace and comfort.
serena says
Hi I just saw Ryans story on Ellen im so sorry this happened it was hard enough watching my mum die but a child you are such a strong lady my thoughts will always be with you and Ryan on every 2nd of May keep being strong 🙂
Rhonda says
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine it for myself. My prayers are with you and I wil share little Ryan.
Darleen Foye says
I just read the article in the newspaper about your beautiful son. It made me cry to think of the pain you are going through. I can’t even imagine losing my child or one of my grandchildren. I have lost nieces and nephews in tragic accidents and it was unbearable watching your loved ones suffer. Please know that your son will always be remembered because of your strength sharing your story. It will help others who are in similar situations. My heart aches for you. I pray that you will find peace and know that he is smiling down at his amazing and courageous mother. May God Bless You and your family.
Ricki Sheldon says
I am curious about contacting Jacqui. April 17th 2015, my baby son of 1 year 4 months was hit and killed by a truck we were bringing home contruction materials with. I found out about this incident by googling to see how common it is that children die by being run over by cars. My contact should be registered in the blog. You can see photos of my son Sinchi Wayra on his facebook page Mountainbebe.
Erika D says
I still remember Ryan, said a prayer this morning for his family! Esp today on Motgers day 3 years later… tragic RIH lil Ryan fly high ????????
No one says
I know the person driving the truck that was involved in the fatal accident. It affected the whole family. They have never been the same. House caught on fire three months later both parents lost their jobs almost lost the house, the wife struggles with his flash backs and to this day he can’t even kill a fly But they are forgotten in this process. Ryans patents are praised for being brave. Hard yes for all, but Ryan was not the only victim in all this three years later. It’s never forgotten.the driver of the truck to this day will not drive down Alta Loma Dr. Think about it
no one says
its all sad for everyone .. Ryan was not the only victim…… it makes me sad that the family who was involved suffers to this silently….. no mention of the innocent driver – they suffer too… in silence
I don’t get it ……. no choice on their part, they got no reward money for all that it cost them… no one knows how much of a toll this took on this family………… praise to the parents of ryan – the driver of the truck – never mind –
neighbor in alta lome
neighor says
I can not believe that they have a go fund me page and received 67k for lost wages.. man, what about the innocent driver, he lost his job and almost his house….. man… they asked for nothing and survived no one talks about him or his family that suffered
neighbor in the area says
ditto … how much did they make off this???? what about the driver and his life… that also affects his family… no mention there… only poor poor parents who didn’t do their job
Jeran Klump says
I am oooo very sorry for you guys and Your loss! My heart is hurting for you all and I will say a prayer for you every night. I know what I am saying cant take your pain away and heal your heart but if I can I totally would! Xoxoxo
Jeran Klump says
I am s oooo very sorry for you guys and Your loss! My heart is hurting for you all and I will say a prayer for you every night. I know what I am saying cant take your pain away and heal your heart but if I can I totally would! Xoxoxo
Stacy Larsen says
My heart goes out to the family and what they are enduring. Ryan looks like he could light up a room! Linsey..you did a beautiful job in telling this tragic accident. Tears are pouring down my face, nobody should ever have to go through this.